I think im falling in love with this girl. Only problem is. I don't think she might feel the same way. I feel like i could spent the rest of ym life with this one. i mean she is everything i ever wanted. My advice though isn't how to get her, but for preparing for the worst... What should i do/can i do if i know she doesn't feel the same way about me? how can i cope with that? etc. etc.
2007-06-10 00:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Son,
First of all pray, because the BIBLE @ Proverbs 3:6 says" In all your ways acknowledge HIM and HE shall direct your path."
Ephesians 5:1-20,21-33
The reason I put this here for you, is to show that you are to love your neighbor as yourself. So there's nothing wrong with loving her. God is love, so test the spirit by the Spirit, then you will be fine.
Proverbs 24:10 says" If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small."
So understand that, If she doesn't love you the way you love her, its better that you know it. Never stop loving anyone, just DON'T kill yourself trying to empress them. Until you marry her shes not your wife. Love her as your sister in Christ first because then you can see her spirit. God bless you in Jesus' name Amen,Amen.
2007-06-10 01:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lamar N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared to face rejection. It hurts, but it will soon be forgotten. You can't force the gal to like you. Does the same for her! She can't force to accept you if she don't have the feeling for you. Love is not about forcing each other. You won't be happy if one of you force yourself to accept this relationship. Love have to be fun, not sorrowful. That's is not what I call LOVE. If she do not feel the same for you, than just forget it. I mean, there's no point at all for you to upset yourself. No matter how sad you are, in front or at the back of her, her answer remain the same. Move on, and I'll be sure you will find more gals that suits you best. Enjoy your life and good luck! If she really have the feel for you, great! And be the first to notify me the good news, okay?
2007-06-10 07:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not sure how old you are but take things slowly its easy for amale to get sucked in to the whol eliking the girl scenario,they are very manipulative at doing this to get what they want,the best advice for you is if she doesnt feel the same way about you,dont take it to heart,its not about you,it will initially hurt becauase your feelings are hurt but take it as a lesson in life,thats going to help you prepare for the next heart break,just sit down write it down and go to sleep and find another girl
2007-06-10 07:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's called "rejection" and you just have to learn to deal with it in an adult manner. and what is this "thinking of falling in love" stuff? love is an emotion that has few if any connections to rationality.
2007-06-10 07:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry dude, love doesn't come with an instruction manual
2007-06-10 07:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well ask her out and tlk and there you go!
kelsey q.
2007-06-10 07:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋