now im not a virgin and i have been with more then 10 guys but i feel as though i have never really been satisfied sexually and because of that i keep wanting to have sex more and more. is there something wrong with me?
2007-06-09 23:07:46 · 22 answers · asked by ashay m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with you. You simply have a high sex drive. You need to communicate with your partner that you need to do it more often. Guys do not usually object to an increased occurrence of the sex act.
It may also be possible that yours is not a problem of quantity, but of quality. When you have sex, do you achieve orgasm? Do you get lots of foreplay before and cuddling afterwards? If you are not satisfied each time, then you will always be horny. It is very possible that you need to find a man who knows what he is doing.
Also, do you feel loved? The female psyche usually translates a need for affection into a desire for sex.
You may also need to invest in a good sex toy.
Good luck!
2007-06-10 00:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a part of sexual satisfaction is a comfort factor with a person. Openess in a relationship and than the expectations out of a relationship. You have slept with 10 guys and you are still not satisfied because you don't have a comfort factor with them.
Find a guy who loves you not wants to make fren for just sex. Build a relationship and if you feel you can give yourself completely only than have sex and i'm sure that will give you satisfaction.
2007-06-10 06:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Samer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem, you just want sex and you are choosing the wrong men. You need to get with guys who really know how to please a woman sexually. If you are a teen, that may be hard to do, because a lot of teen boys are sexually immature and don't know how to hold back long enough for a woman to climax.
If you have never experienced an climax, you need to masturbate and explore your own body, to find out what is pleasing to yourself. Once you have mastered giving yourself a climax, you can tell your partner what turns you on to reaching that level of pleasure. Try a vibrator.
2007-06-10 06:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you'll get satisfied when you meet someone you really connect with, someone you really love beyond physical attraction. How about getting to know a person really well first before sleeping with him? Then there are more reasons to stay with this person longer, be more open to each other and tell him the things you'd want to experience to satisfy you. Just a suggestion, hope it helps :)
2007-06-10 06:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noo that's completely normal.
You just want to be sexually satisfied, which is something normal.
You could sexually satisfy your self, if you are finding having sex with men doesn't give you what you desire.
Otherwise maybe you just need to find what you enjoy, and maybe find the right person to do it with.
2007-06-10 06:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, nothing is wrong with you hun. A lot of girls go through that. Its takes girls a longer time to be "sexually satisfied" than it does for guys, and since most guys stop after they climax, a lot of girls never reach theirs. What you need is to talk to your guy and tell him to keep going. Try on top ;)
girls have more control that way and sometimes it helps with the situation.
2007-06-10 06:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With females, sex is mostly mental. Maybe the problem is that you and your partners have just never had that sexual attraction or he never took the time out to find what pleasures you most. I suggest you wait for the right guy to show you how it's done and don't let him go.
2007-06-10 06:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by keli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a Sex Expert to tell you which part is the most fun for girl...and i think since you already f8cked by 10 guys and you complain of not satisfy then you should channge to become lesbian maybe it will satisfy you!
ask God to help you change your way cause soon you gonna get AIDS if you kept on f8ck
2007-06-10 06:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't assume that men automatically know how to satisfy a woman because they don't. good sex isn't an instinctual thing, it has to be taught and learned by both men and women. i was lucky to have a lover who took the time to teach me how to "make love" to a woman and not just have sex. communicate to your partner what makes you feel good and what dosn't. once that trust is established, then the guard goes down and you can enjoy "making love"
2007-06-10 06:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are in control of your orgasms. If you're not having them then you need to figure out what it is that will get you there. It isn't the MAN who brings a woman to climax although their egos make them think it is...it is all in the mind of the woman, once she gives herself over to the total pleasure and totally relaxes and strips herself of all inhibitions and all other thought she will find it. And for those guys who think they've gotten there women there...watch the restaurant scene in "When Harry Met Sally".
2007-06-10 06:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋