Well there is this guy in my year at school,he keeps doing stuff to me that im not comfortable with,im not his girlfriend and he has never really talked to me before.He lives next door to me and he keeps coming round to my house when my parents arnt in,ive trieds shuting the door but he is strong and he forces himslef in,when he comes he touches me and does all this stuff to me,i hate it soo much,tell him to stop and everything but he is really stong and does weight lifting,he also doesnt stop and hits me when i say that.He has never told anybody and neither have i.I really hate it and i dont know what to do.He does it at school to if i am sat next to him,which i am quite often then he touches my leg and pinces me if i move away.I really want him to stop,it makes me feel so bad,what do i do plese help me.Is it normall for something like this to happen?
2007-06-09 22:54:10 · 17 answers · asked by Kαtydid ★ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, it's not normal for things like this to happen. and most importantly, it's not normal for a 'man' to do this to a girl. especially as you are NOT his girlfriend and even more importantly, because you don't want him to. the best you can do is to tell somebody. i know it's hard, but his threats are pretty much harmless if you get help. first, tell a very trusted friend and have that friend help you tell your parents. and with your parents, go to the police. what this guy is doing is definitely harmful to you, physically and emotionally. i hope i could help you, but this is all i can do. remember, what happened isn't your fault and i know telling somebody can kind of seem embarassing, but by telling someone else, you're helping and protecting yourself - which is the best you can do right now. get all the help you can get, from friends and family, because with them, you are safest.
2007-06-09 23:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a crime and you need to report him at school, to your parent, to his parents and anyone else who will listen. Don't you realize that he could actually rape and murder you!! Do not go one minute more without telling someone right now. Call the police now! You will not be in trouble, HE will. Don't be afraid, you'll be protected from him. It may start out pretty scary for you but don't be afraid, AND, you should be afraid of him. He is mentally UN-stable. He needs mental help. Normal people do not act like this. Get a tape recorder, have it ready when you think he's going to come around, hide it and record him! You don't have to wait to get proof but it helps. Just by reporting him may get him to stop. You can also tell him what your going to do if he doesn't leave you alone. If he touches you in school. raise your hand and very loudly yell what he is doing to you, right then and there! Never and I mean never let him in your house, EVER! Boy, child, you better do something right now before it's to late... God is with you, you can do this...do it now!
2007-06-09 23:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by LORETTA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 05:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a video camera? if you are afraid people wont believe you........
unfortunately that will put yourself in harms way again.
it's not going to stop unless you make it stop.
you can also try putting 911 on speed dial and keep the phone with you when your parents leave, that would give an actual account of what was going on with the police, plus by hearing whats going on over the phone they would send help before it got totally out of hand. just dont let him know you've called...hit speed dial an toss the phone in a chair or something.
good luck.
2007-06-09 23:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by mysti t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap!
I'm so sorry to hear that darlin'.. First of all, hell f ucking no,that is not normal at all!! He is controlling you,and it sounds like he's even molesting you.. I mean,molesting you if he's forcing his way on you,and you don't want that. Please,if you have someone close to you,like a friend,or a close family member..then tell this to them.. I hate to hear about *** holes
like this ,who get away with all that stuff..and never get punished for it. Either do that, tell a close friend or family member,or call the police.. Who the f uck cares if he lifts weights? They'll break his door down and throw his *** in jail.. You really have to tell someone about this ,I'm serious..
Tell someone,or take matters into your own hands..and call the police,because it's illegal to touch someone sexually if you don't want them to, and to force his way into your house,and to physically harm you like that..
You have to call the cops,with a friend or without one..or do both. Please ,do it for yourself..or it will only get worse,and maybe you could end up being raped..Just try to save yourself,because you is all you have in the end..
2007-06-09 23:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell this dude to stop and make a big deal of it in fron of people, get loud with it. tell your parents now so they know the situation tell neighbors teachors but as far as police dont go overboard but honestly if this guy is forcing his way into the house i think you should call the cops before something really bad happens. by the way its not normal for something to be happening that you dont like so dont take it
2007-06-09 23:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by jimbobo676 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, teachers,other neighbors, call the police. This is not your fault. You need to get help right away!!! What he is doing is against the law!!! Don't you have locks on your doors? If he breaks the door, you have reason to call the police. They will arrest him. This is not normal !!!! This creep needs to be put away forever.
2007-06-09 23:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st tell your parents, and shut the door immediately once they are out.
2nd wherever he touch u again, shout as loud as u can
3rd report to your teacher or report t police
4rd don't stay alone, as your friends to keep u company
5rd keep something to protect yourself like a nail cutter
2007-06-09 23:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by moonrider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've told him to stop several times, and "forces" his way into your house and does sexually things to you that you don't want him to that's wrong.
You should tell your parents about it? and see what they say and want to do it about it.
I know you're probably scared, but you need to tell someone and then he wont have control over you anymore and wont be able to hurt you okay.
2007-06-09 22:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by DJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parent's of what is going on, and call the cops, what he is doing is trying to break in , and sexual harassing you. And he can get in trouble
2007-06-09 23:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋