There's this guy, he's been my frnd for about 8months now. We've liked each other, but have fought every single day for 8 months. We met online and hardly met in person...
Last Sunday,(3rd June) we met again.The previous night we flirted around abit over the phone so he wanted to meet. I met him at around 11:00AM and we went on chatting till 2:00PM!
He asked me out. The next day he told me he loved me... I didn't believe him, cuz it had just been a day, but we knew each other for months...I still believed him
He aint tha kinda guy who's all into sex and girls.. he's a nice guy, but very moody.
He dumped me last night coz he failed his 12th grade exam and his mom grounded him... told him that he aint gonna step outa the house till November. So he told me that he wanted space to think and if we continued, he would want to meet me and then his mom may kick his ***..
I had no option other than let him go! Do you think he will come back? Please tell me what u think. Thank you
2007-06-09 22:21:28 · 18 answers · asked by Trisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What i meant by 'sin't all into girls and sex' is that, he's ready to wait and isn't a flirt.. so Mr. fire_inur_eyes, shove it up! n m jus a teen... using 'aint' doesn't classify me as 'uneducated'... you aren't the president to speak formally to... not even worth formal words.
2007-06-09 22:42:35 · update #1
You did the right thing....He needs to have his space right now and get things into line...Meanwhile cool you heels and wait for him to open up, you said he is moody so when he is ready for help give it to him....so he can pass his exams well and get back on track
2007-06-09 22:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by blubella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read you own letter--and read it again--don't you get it?? He has to get an education because his family wants him to be smart and have a good future. What are you doing?? Sitting asround worrying about this dumb crap that sounds ridiculous--go to school and get your education--if he is around next year--and you act a little smarter and more mature--he may ask you out. Right now you two are just acting like 10 year old kids---I mean you wrote it yourself...read it !! get a grip--cool off--and stop wasting his time on the phone with goofy crap--sounds stupid and immature from the start. He isn't into girls or sex??? Yes he is--just not you--probably because you are a pesty kid. Hey--the word "AINT" isn't used by educated people.
2007-06-10 05:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Internet romances don't work. The thing about an internet romance is that is that you may see pictures and read words they write, but you 'create' the person that they may not be in you r own head. In reality, that person may not be so great. He seems a little "off" just from your story. He may come back, but don't take him back. You don't want to get sucked in to a crazy relationship.
2007-06-10 05:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jstylez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kimber he is waste of your precious time you are pretty and inteligent so dont bother to chat with him ever he is just using his mom as an excuse to not go out with you i notice lots of guys on net flirt online and on phone but wont in real cause they are just playing meet a reall guy you can go out with and have fun forget this loser
2007-06-17 20:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this guy really loves you like he said he did, then he will come back. But, until then, don't waste your time on something that's not happening yet. Remember: A promise is only words until it is fulifilled. Go out and have fun!
2007-06-18 05:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by M0RGAN! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he will come back probably.
It's hard dealing with moodyness (I'm quite moody my self and then sometimes seem to go on the destructive)
But he probably just needs time to think, and wait till his mother ungrounded him.
I wouldn't worry to much.
2007-06-10 05:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just cant understand how he can dump you because of his failure in exam? you can be his frnd at that time to console him. he could say you that his mom did this and that, so he cant go out these days and need to concentrate on study or whatever. but what's the point of dumping you, i just cant get his point
2007-06-10 05:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Purbasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,since he is young,he might and might not,but dont worry there is a lot out there,there is nothing wrong with having friend thru chatting but one advice "know the guy first in person before going serious.Be very careful
2007-06-10 05:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you fought everyday, yet you've rarely spent most of your time together in live company.
Go get someone who you spend more time with in real life than you do on the compy.
2007-06-10 05:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jakarta Worker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him. There's nothing impossible. If he really wants to be with you. He will crawl all the way to you even if you kick him right in tht a**
2007-06-10 05:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋