This guy who I've been friends with for 2 years now.. He has a girlfriend but I was drunk AS last night he came around and we did bad naughty stuff.. and now I just can't help but regret it because he has a girlfriend... I'm not sure really what to do right now... I don't havea question I just need some advice in what to do now...
2007-06-09 20:47:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the morning after pill
2007-06-09 20:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by sausage_eater 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Alcohol should not be the cause of what you felt you did wrong, because you knew that you were in the wrong and was a little coherent about it at the time. Especially during the naughty parts. You better take the precautions that you are not pregant.
When you're dead drunk, everything spins, and you're a blubbering mess. Having sex and drunk is like having a throw up dance along with some banging that you don't know about. You really don't enjoy it because you feel really sick.
2007-06-09 20:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you need to ask yourself is what was it like? If you found it to be an extremely pleasurable experience then ask yourself is his girlfriend a b!tch? Answer yes to that and then steal him from her, coolio. Anyway, my advice to you would be to realise that hormonal youths and alcohol does not mix, I can almost guarantee the next morning you'll be rubbing your head, your slit and, seen as you were 'drunk AS' your A-hole too. So suck it up, tell that ho of a girlfriend that you've been bumping uglies with her man and then sober up for long enough to realise that you really need to stop calling it naughty stuff. Sounds like you took a crap on his neighbours lawn or something.
2007-06-09 20:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one, you shouldn't get drunk in a public setting, yeah I know that sounds stupid, but if you are buzzed not drunk, you can still maintain some ability to judge correctly.
Chalk it up to a bad decision and don't do it again. Think of it this way, if it wouldn't of been you he messed around with, it would of been another girl. He was going to cheat eventually one way or the other, and him being drunk is no excuse.
Don't beat yourself up over it, and just keep a better head on your shoulders next time.
2007-06-09 20:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, maybe you should learn not to get drunk. By the way, there's something wrong with a guy who hasn't yet figured out that it's better if the woman's actually sober, so I'd strike him from the friends list. His girlfriend's probably going to be p!$$ed!
2007-06-09 21:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Theodore H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do something that makes up for it. For example if you stole $1 from your mum. Return $2
So now you just need to think of something nice you can do for that girl that would be twice as good as the bad thing you done is bad. If that makes sense 0.o
Oh and also Never do that again! Learn from your mistakes. And become a better person
2007-06-09 20:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm, well drunkness is no excuse, dont wanna hear it, you did what you wanted to, and life is too short for regrets, and if you wanna feel better, just think about it like this, he did the "naughty" stuff too, so things must not be going too well with him and his girlfriend.
2007-06-09 20:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Zoila 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's done is done. You feel bad about it which is a sign that you're not a horrible person, you just made a mistake. Hey we all do; some worse than others. Either way, learn from it, and move on. Don't beat yourself up over something you can't go back and change. Just remember it for future reference and keep it movin!
You're goin to f*ck up some time in life. Nobody's perfect.
2007-06-09 20:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK u feel bad for yourself or do you feel bad for his GF a (as well as being scared of being confronted?!). well try not to see that guy tooo often (doesnt mean changing jobs if he is ur colleague!).. but try to put it behind you... dont think abt it, in fact act as if it never happened (remember you were drunk so u cant remember) act as if it were the guys fault (taking advantage of u, well hope thats not the case)
somehow, u will find out that this does not only happen to u... so good luck... =)
2007-06-09 20:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe call him and say that whatever happened last night didn't mean anything and that u were just drunk and didn't know what was happening and that u were in no state to stop it. Hope this helps. :)
2007-06-09 20:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is as much as his fault as is it yours, what would have he looked you for if he realized you were that drunk, then?
if you appreciate the relationship between him and his gf, keep it quiet, and if you happen to talk about that, tell her you regret that a lot and you won't get to do such thing ever again
and to help getting over it, try to discuss this as some hypothetical question about how would they handle it (of course if that friend of yours has a big mouth some people is going to know it anyways)
and if his gf finds out and confronts you, APOLOGIZE dammit!
2007-06-09 20:55:39 · answer #11 · answered by polainaz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋