....take them in. Their father is a pot head and alcoholic and so is their step mother. They have lived a very volotile life, but because of the guidance of their grandmother, they are very good girls. However their grandmother's husband wont let them stay with them.
Every child in my family, immediate and extended, have had great home lives and lots of opportunities except fo these young girls. They are 9th & 10th graders and a lot of responsibility I know, but I am willing to have them come live with me. I have an extra room in my house, except I don't have a lot of extra money because I am a student and single parent. I can apply for AFDC for their expenses and that would be more than enough for their clothes, food, etc, and even some for a savings account for each.
My mother says I'm crazy for considering, but I really hate to see these young girls fall into the system. But I'
2007-06-09 20:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by AnswerWhore 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I think you are a caring, loving person to want to help these two girls. I wish your relatives would put themselves in the girl's postion. You reap what you sow. Your kindness to these two girls will be returned ten fold in years to come. God Bless You!
2007-06-09 20:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by CRAIG C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do it. If you don't and something should happen you will never forgive yourself. Would you have wanted someone to help you?
You can become an approved foster parent which will get you more money for the expense part of it but it will also provide mental health services that these kids will need.
Giving to them will give you back 10 fold. In the worst case this will be for 4 yrs before they hit college which is a great option if they have the help that they need.
Good luck in whatever decision you make.
2007-06-09 20:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does your mother think you are crazy? Are they acting out? If they are good students and can be trusted, give it a trial period. If you trust them, maybe give them chores like watching your child. If the parents haven't rubbed off on them yet and they are willing to maybe get jobs part time or help around the house, give it a shot. You are a good person, don't let anyone take advantage of that! Family or not. Good luck.
2007-06-09 20:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by herekittykitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, depending on which state you live in, you can apply to have them come and live wiht you through kinship care. They will provide you with assistance to care for the girls. Money, food, and whatever else you may need. Contact thier department of human services rep. They will want to place the chijldren with a family member over a stranger. esp since they are older
2007-06-09 20:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by cocokutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take all that comes with them into account, especially their parents. I have to commend you for wanting to help and believe that you're doing the right thing. All that said, think about the problems that they may bring because of their parents. Will the parents become a problem for you and your children? I think that sometimes you have to take a chance. I hope that you can pull this off because those girls didn't ask to exist and deserve a fighting chance. I hope this works out for you, your children, and them. God Bless!
2007-06-09 20:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by CUrias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should put a roof over there heads. Your family is a bunch of pricks for looking down on you for doing the right thing. America should reward you and should help pay for there exspenses. Thank you for being who you are. The world needs more people like you who will help those in need.
2007-06-09 20:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that you mind is already made up. Go with it there a lots of funding for these situations...as you know. But it is always better for the children to go with family if possible and the goverment will agree....normally
Good luck...remember the most important thing is to love them always
2007-06-09 20:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by kamarose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call your county office to be sure...but I think as long as you have there s.s.#'s you can get it assistance & medical...but dont wait, it takes time to get things done in some citi's. Im glad to see some people have a heart. May God Bless you!
2007-06-09 20:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by wilderwear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you could give them a better life money isn't everything being safe and happy means more I am sure you can get help with the money from somewhere don't give up
2007-06-09 20:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are a very good person for considering letting some of ur family move in with you.
you do what your heart tells you to do.
let god guide the way!
god bless you.
2007-06-09 20:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by unpredictable. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋