today my friends invited me to dinner and i told them that i can't go cuz i was sick..... but i wasn't sick ..the reason i couldn't cuz is all of my friends have girfriend and everytime we hungout and i see them have the girlfriend in their arms kissig , holding their hand .... i get jelouse cuz i been single for about 9 month after i got out of 5 years realtionship.... the funny thing is that all the girls the know me and knew my friends they say i'm the most good looking guy between them all.
i laugh evertime they tell me that ....they have no clue the my ex. girlfriend cheated on me after five years with her they dont know that i spend saturday night at my house alone playing the paino...i'm tried of spending time at the gym or working or college i just turned 20 and i wanna be happy agian .. i just need end to all this i really wanna be happy again...
my ex. girlfriend hurt me so bad ...that .i feel like i should leave u.s and go back to italy.
2007-06-09 18:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to hear about your breakup, it sounds like it was a very painful. I know personally that it sucks to hang out with couples when you are single, expecially when they are being all lovey dovey. I know it doesn't feel like it now, but it will get better. You were in a very long relationship and that is something you won't just get over over night, but please trust me when I say that it will get easier and it won't hurt so bad over time. For now there are several things you can do to help youself take your mind off of the hurt. Try hanging out with your single friends, or just hang out with your friends for a "guys night" instead of a couples date. When you don't have plans with friends, do something that you really enjoy doing like drawing, listning to music, cooking, going to a club something positive that makes you happy. You are still young and will probably have plenty of girl friends before you settle down, enjoy that! Until you find someone that you are happy with and you start dateing again, remind yourself that there is no rule that says that you have to have a girlfriend all the time. There is nothing wrong with being single and finding yourself and improoving yourself. That way when you do find someone special then you will know exactly what you want. Enjoy being single and learning about yourself and don't settle for someone that you don't really like just for the sake of saying that you have a girlfriend. You can't make someone else happy until you are happy with yourself. As far as leaving the U.S. to go back to Italy ask yourself this question... Do you think running away from your problem will make it any better. Whether you are in the U.S. or Italy you will still feel the pain from your breakup. Distance will not mend your heart, only time will do that. Things will get better sweetie, I promise:)
2007-06-09 18:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Smarty Pants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave! Don't give your ex any glory for breaking your heart. Yes, believe it or not but this is the first time I have ever met someone who actually admitted to this situation. I go through it to. But what I did is I confronted my friends and I told them that I do not feel comfortable around them when they were with their boyfriends. So maybe you just need to tell them how you feel about the situation. I am really sorry that your girlfriend did that to you but it's clear that she did not deserve you and she will find out that she is missing out. But I totally agree and knows what it feels like to be the "third wheel" and it sucks. But maybe you need to just find someone else and I am sure that that would be easy. You have to open your self up so that women can see who you are. And I know that it will be hard after going through all the BS with your ex but you can do it. Good Luck
2007-06-09 18:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by LovelygalCA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...You really felt a kick in the gut. I'm sorry. Maybe the more you network (like going to dinner socials w/ friends) you might meet someone new through one of your friends girlfriends. If you are as good looking as you say and obviously have intellegence it shouldn't be so hard, just open your heart up to let someone new in...ok? Feel Better in the U.S.
2007-06-09 18:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by sorri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discomfort is a unusual difficulty. Burning a finger or stubbing a toe can harm all evening, yet as quickly as I shattered my wrist into 20 products (bones protruding), i did not sense something in any respect. i assume i replaced into basically into "operation mode," and that i found out that discomfort may well be a incapacity in getting necessary scientific help. i don't think of the worst actual discomfort can come close to to the psychological discomfort a lot of human beings have suffered. Merry Christmas, and all the suitable to you and your loved ones. And be careful!
2016-11-09 23:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by jetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! My mom has so many guys come over to our house. She'll sit down & make-out with them for hours. She'll also go on dates with them, hold hands, and give them hugs. I got jealous cuz my mom says I can't have a boyfriend yet but I couldn't take it so now I'm going out with an amazing guy & my mama doesn't have a clue.
2007-06-09 18:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sorry dude. yeah sound lsiek u really liked this girl n she screwed u over.. even tho it still hurts maybe its time to try n find someone new to make u jus as happy as the last one did.. i was kinda the same way but i started talkign to this guy that i knew n was attracted too but didnt really think about daten but talked to him anyways n now weve been toget for a yea rn a half n im really glad i gave him a chance.. good luck..
2007-06-09 18:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong of being single ...have fun be confident in front of your freind ... i guess u r a picky person thats why u didn't have another GF yet ... don't rush one day u will meet this person in your life ....be cool about it....try to control your jelousy...don't think that when u c your freinds hanging with their Gf;s r happy alll the time they have problems 2 ...
2007-06-09 18:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by black cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have felt that way. To me it felt like the end of the world. But you know what? You are the "hot guy" your friends Girlfriends keep in their back pocket till a rainy day bro. just sayin'. Keep heart. You'll spot her catchin your eye, on the other hand
ITIALIAN GIRLS ARE HOT OMGWTF
2007-06-09 18:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by Whamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, find a volunteer position or a project with your school that would keep you busy on saturday nights if you do nto want to be with your friends. OR ask them to set you up with a nice girl that would respect you. Blind dates are nerve racking but they can be fun! If you go back to Italy, my daughet wants to go with you....we just got back and we lovedit there!
2007-06-09 18:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need a break: travel a bit, visit home back in Italy (lovely people!), play a the piano a lt! Everything will be okay soon! you will be back to your buoyant, bubbly days!
2007-06-09 18:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋