I'm 19(Yvette).My parents were killed from the people who kidnapped me and my sister Alayna(age 11).That happened 8 months ago.There was another child,Raylie,age 12 now.The assailants kept us for more than half an year,raping us every day and humiliating us.A month ago we managed to escape,let the police 'take care' of those animals.Foster care helped us but since I'm 19,they gave us a small house to live in for a few years.We moved last week.Everything has been so...fast happening...I'm pregnant in 8 month and so are my sister and the other girl(somewhere in 8th month are we all).I have no idea what to do.I have found an internet job but I don't know how to handle everything else,what to do with the girls...If anyone ready to give any advice I'd appreciate.I'm really confused and just...need a lot of advice.Please,help!
2007-06-09 17:49:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
It really must be hard for you and i am very sorry. I think the first thing you would need to do is go and get (wic). Then i would apply for food stamps. This will help you not to worry about food. There should be some local programs for your state or town that can help you get housing for nothing. The government can also pay for your college. When you go apply for food stamps i would ask them what some programs are available for you. The state can arrange free child care and health benefits for you and your family. I will try to do some more research for you, but i will keep you in my prayers. When you feel doubt or alone pray and i promise the lord will help.
2007-06-09 17:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm So Sorry! People are sooo horrible! The question I have to ask to give an opinion is, Are you planning on keeping the baby.Adoption is a very good way to go But it would be hard on you. The child is a part of you. and you may decide that you want to keep it once you see it. But It would be hard with 3 babies and 2 teenage girls. Honestly, I could understand if you all wanted to keep them or give them to adoption. The big thing is, will your job be enough financial stability? will you need another, or is it possible to earn extra with this job. But be careful, lots of internet jobs are scams. But if you just need somebody to talk to, mail me. I'm always here to help if I can! God Bless You!
2007-06-09 18:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sounds like you've been through quite an ordeal. First, I strongly suggest that you give the child up for adoption. You don't need that kind of responsibility right now. You need to focus on healing yourself, not raising a child. And there are many wonderful families waiting to adopt, so don't feel guilty. Hopefully you are getting some good counseling/therapy and can work through this tragedy and overcome it. Maybe you could go to school and work on doing things that make you happy. Good luck and take care of yourself.
2007-06-09 17:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What country are you in? If you are in the US, there are government programs that would help you financially. The Salvation Army, Red Cross, even a church would help you with whatever you needed.
Do you have any other family who can help you?
What do you mean the police "took care" of your assailants?
2007-06-09 18:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real question then you need to get some government assistance (these are the situations where it is appropriate) you need to talk to the foster care people and find you what other kind of monetary assistance you can get. you'll get some from the government for taking care of your family members....and you'll need some free psychological help too. There are outlets. If they wont help you then go to a church and ask for help.
2007-06-09 17:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by tcb 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm not too good at this..but i'll try to help..i see your situation is so hard..my advice is you could find a small job to start with just to live with your sisters..after birth,it will be much harder for you so you could ask help from your relatives if you have one and find a decent job where you could earn enough money for your family..and the best thing to do is pray..ther's nothing impossible with Him...=)
2007-06-09 17:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sellemariejo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could easily do this! beats the hell outta calling the police officers and in the event that they don't get the message then what's going to you do? scare them returned donning sky mask and make it look such as you're approximately to mugg & beat the shi+ outta them with a bat, which will particularly do it.
2016-11-27 22:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by harewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. You should qualify for public assistance and free medical care while you are pregnant. Please contact those agencies and ask what to do. Every city has different things available.
2007-06-09 17:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. how did you manage to get a computer??????
2. where you from?
2007-06-09 17:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first off please dont even think about aportion if u want there is always adoption if you like you wouldnt be able to handle the baby
2007-06-09 18:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by ~MiZz JeSsIcA~ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋