Well my girlfriend of 4 years and I broke up recently. She has started seeing this other guy and recently kissed for the first time though for some odd reason she said she didn't feel any spark. Yet for some reason she still believe she likes him. Could it be possible that she just felt weird kissing another guy? Also, I want to get back with her one day because she broke up because she wanted to explore and I want to marry her one day...but now just trying to be friends...i cant think of anything to talk about except him...any ideas on how to talk to an ex?
How come she still likes him if she kissed him and didnt feel a spark at all?/
2007-06-09 16:16:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, if she broke up with you, chances are....you won't get back together. A girl who breaks up with you just so she can see other guys & explore is NOT WORTH IT anyways. It's very rare the two of you will stay friends, especially with the fact that you still love her. It will hurt you too much to hear she goes out & kisses other guys. Your better off just forgetting about her & moving on. Find a girl who will love & respect your feelings.
2007-06-09 16:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. Run as far away as you can. When a girl tells you after four years that she wants to explore and has the gall to tell you all about her new relationship in hopes that you can still be friends sounds like someone who is trying on the new outfits while the one that really fits is hanging up in the closet. You need to explore also. I'll bet you she will find her spark back to you. You are too close. She's having her cake and eating it too. Give her the space she asked for. Don't be so available. Don't answer your phone and don't stay at home - get up and get out and have some fun of your own. Who knows? Maybe she isn't the girl you think she is - and if she is- and she comes back to you and you are okay with all of this - then it was meant to be - but for goodness sake - don't be a rug for her to step on. (she might have told you that so she wouldn't hurt your feelings....)
2007-06-09 16:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't know how to kiss. Maybe she's trying too hard. Maybe she likes the idea of him but isn't really attracted. If you ever want to end up with this girl do NOT be her girlfriend and discuss her explorations. Get out there and do your own explorations. If it's meant to be...it will...she just gave you a BIG hint by breaking up with you. Move on, "if you love something, set it free" and that means you too.
All the Best!
2007-06-09 16:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by bookish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your recently ex-girlfriend still likes you. I do believe that you girlfriend doesn't know what she wants quite yet. I do think that she will come back to you, just give her some time. I think that in some time, she will realize that she made a mistake and that she wants to be with you. TIME, that is all this needs.
2007-06-09 16:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by J-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. She obviously wants to explore her options. You just gotta let her go and maybe she will come back to you,maybe she won't..but letting go is the best thing for you..holding on is just too painful without any certainty or promises..your life is basically just on hold and you can't do that to yourself..let her move on while you move on as well..don't wait around for her to make up her mind..you are better than that!
2007-06-09 16:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly,you already lose her.if you want her back,make her fall in love with you.for that spark thing,its something normal not to have any sparks for the first kiss..aniways,try to get close to her as a best friend.you will find out soon that she cant live without you if she really loves you .(:
Good luck!
2007-06-09 16:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♣valentine melons♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why, but you have to believe her when she says that she likes him. Because she said so. That's it. Like it or not.
Give it all some time. Sometimes just time passing will help you see things more clearly.
2007-06-09 16:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just wants to see other people for a while and try things out, just tell her how you feel and tell her that she can take her time with whatever she needs and that you'll be there for her, wait it out, things should fall into place whether its in your favor or not, it'll be okay, get your feelings off your chest.. best of luck
2007-06-09 16:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sami J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loose? tight?
2007-06-09 16:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋