I really want a b/f , im a 15 year old girl and live in ohio thats going to be a sophmore. I dont feel like anyone could love me and when ever i see people who have someone to love I feel really sad. And I think why cant I be like them. My step sis has a b/f and even my little sis is going to be getting a b/f soon because shes talking to a guy that really likes her and she likes to. I feel so left out I know im still young but I want to at least know what its like to have a b/f when im a teenager so please dont say not to worry about it. PLEASE give me some advice !!
2007-06-09 16:16:23 · 17 answers · asked by Sweet_angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know how when you look for things you can't find, you get all worked up and still can't find it? Then...when you stop, calm down and stop thinking about it...it turns up. That's my advice to you. Take your mind off of it. I know it may seem that you are being left out but believe me when it is suppose to happen, it will. You can't run away from what's yours. So my advice is to hang out with friends and have some FUN! I bet when you stop worrying about it, he'll show up. In addition, when you get worked up about things, it shows in your attitude and personality. You don't want that vibe working against you. So relax. That will allow your good to find it's way to you in an expedient and efficient manner. Good luck!
2007-06-09 16:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Lord's Child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you feel like anyone can love you? I am positive that you have gifts and talents and abilities that are uniquely your own. You must be proud of them- no matter how big or small they are. Some days, knowing I make a great meat loaf is all the positive lift i have-lol!
You have to like you before anyone else can. Stop comparing yourself to your sisters, they are not you!
Is there a guy you like that you could ask for homework help? Open the door to spending some time together?
I hope that you realize that it will happen when the time is right, which is not always the time we choose.
If these feelings of being unlovable persist, you realllllyy need to talk to an adult you trust, it could be a deeper problem that you may need help with. I wish you the very best and hope that a great guy comes along that can help you see how truly wonderful and special you are.
2007-06-10 00:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so your young and you want to find love. Well, I think that you are too young to find love, but maybe a relationship would a good start. I think that you just need to take the time for a relationship to start. If you have friends that knows some boys, get to talking to them (the boys) at first. Get comfortable talking around the boys. Then you can branch out and maybe find someone that is worth a relationship with you.
2007-06-09 23:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by J-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.
I feel the exact same way.
I am a 14 year old going to be a freshman.
I feel hopeless when i see my friends with boyfriends.
It makes me feel depressed also.
Then i start putting myself down. Like no one would want to date me im so freaking ugly.
I dont know exactly what to do but dont worry. There is someone out there for everyone.
Just some of us take a while to find that special someone.
Good Luck!!
2007-06-09 23:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15, don't be in such a hurry to grow up. When you are ready to have a boyfriend you will find one. Learn self confidence, learn to love yourself, get yourself involved in school and sports. Take it from some one who has been in your shoes, boys in high school aren't that great anyways so you are not missing much. Instead of worrying so much about whether or not you have a boyfriend worry about getting good grades and getting into college. Boys will come and go but an education is forever
2007-06-09 23:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by kila537 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young you have to give yourself some more time and as per you told i think u don't seem to have a boy as an friend so try to have some conversations with boy let it be short n simple like talking about studies n when the right time comes u will find some 1 with u.
2007-06-09 23:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY how you feel, im 16 and a sophmore going to be a jr. and earlier this year i was feeling the same, it was like everyone but me had someone to love and love them back, and i just started talking to new people and tried to get to know people maybe i knew but didnt really know well, and i met this really great guy, kevin, and he is amazing and yeah...lol goodluck
2007-06-09 23:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by alyssa a. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you could be more cheerful and out going, things would work out better. Making friends is the easiest thing you could ever do. Give a helping her every now and then but know your limits.
2007-06-09 23:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am 15 and I am going to be junior so it hard for me too. If you are interested in anyone, I would suggest hinting at them. See if they seem interested in you and then go from there.
If you don't have anyone in mind go to parties. Put yourself in situations where you meet people. You never know where you are going to find someone you are attracted to.
2007-06-09 23:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tons of people are like that, you aren't alone. I was like that because my confidence was so low. If you forget about everyone else having someone, and focusing on what other people have that you don't. Start being yourself and stop thinking about what other people think. Someone will notice you. We always find things when we stop looking for them.
2007-06-09 23:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋