i met this guy his 20 years older than me and he seams to be really into me. I find him attractive and he totally doesnt look his age, he likes to party and have fun, but im considering dating him more like for his money. is it ok or hoeish?
2007-06-09 16:01:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-06-09 16:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I gotta be honest, that is pretty hoeish. Sort of like those trashy, gold-digging girls that marry Donald Trump. They're in it for the money, he's in it for the sex.
At least, that's how it seems. Buuut that's just my opinion.
2007-06-09 16:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tialiarhetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hoeish but if I liked the guy I would go for it even if my main interest was the money. I´m so needy of money right now that I would do it, but he needs to be very attractive.
2007-06-09 16:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is not a good idea. have some respect, for money is not all...If you are attracted to him, that is enuf. The money is an atractive bonus, but do not accept cash as a transaction. The money is what makes it wrong. The fact that you asked the question shows that there is some moral fibre in your heart...which is a seed for a good start.
2007-06-09 16:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by daleferdinand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 23:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by chatan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have already answered your own question. It is not okay to date a man for his money - old or young. If you start this, there will be some other not-so-nice names that will be attached to you. I know you have a heart and I know you have a soul, and a conscience and I am sure you have been told about women who play these kinds of games with men for their money. I know two who are dead.
2007-06-09 16:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't even consider it. This man will probably end up taking you into his house and having sex with you or something. Don't date him. Find a guy around your own age and get to know him. That will work out much better trust me.
2007-06-09 16:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Caleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's almost sickening! Not that he's 20 years older, that doesn't bother me. What bothers me is that women prey on these types of men. Dating is supposed to be more than for hwat you might gain out of it...it involves friendship and love, trust and communication .......just to name a few characteristics
2007-06-09 16:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely hoeish, but he sounds nice, could you learn to love him or is that out of the question?
2007-06-09 16:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by KrazyKat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not ok!!! age shouldnt matter but dating for money not for love, not for having a good relationship, not for being able to talk about everything...its more than hoeish, its cold and mean, dont do it and never consider it again
2007-06-09 16:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sorry, but I'm with almost everybody else on this one, if the only reason your dating this guy is for his money then your using him, but of course the same may be true of him, he may be using you, the question is for what. I have a guess!
2007-06-09 16:12:19 · answer #11 · answered by Alex W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋