he knows i like him and he still wants to be friends, he just doesnt want to go out with me because i talked about people behind thier backs this year, and i regret that because im not that kind of person. i still love him and i want to prove that to him...anyone have any ideas on how i could win him back?
2007-06-09 15:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by bella122305 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think,she'll gonna like you again.
don't be a loser. there are lots of guys out there who will like you for whoever you are. goodluck!
2007-06-09 16:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is based on mutual trust and respect.When you talk behind people, you show a lack of maturity especially when you engaged in lies.Since he still likes you ,assure him by words and action that you're a change person that you want to put this episode behind you and move forward with your friendship/relationship,making him aware of your feelings in the meantime..Then make a conscious effort to give up the habit that got you in trouble initially.
2007-06-09 23:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no "winning" anyone back.
If he wants to be with you, he cannot be forced or persuaded. And you cannot be friends with someone you like! It never works. Someone always gets hurt. Just wait and see. If he doesn't come around, don't even worry about it. There's plenty of other guys out there.
2007-06-09 22:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by keli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you learned your lesson? You can not change him but you can change yourself, so do that. Do not make that mistake again. Just act as nice as possible and MAYBE he will notice the change in you and once more be attracted to you. If not, and you have changed for the better, someone even better will be coming along for you.
2007-06-09 23:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Granny Judy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a natural phenomenon u can't create it as it just happens.trust me i like ur question but being specific forget that guy and start loving someone else.u shud know dat u have already lost him and love or relationship is like a mirror and if a scratch comes on it starts to crack and then it breaks.
2007-06-10 00:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by aditya b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, with the understanding he may not want to come back with you. But most importantly, learn from this expereince, and move forward.
2007-06-09 23:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you'll try to change (I know that sounds kinda strange but it will probably work.) Ask him to give you a chance. And remember to let him know how much you like him.
2007-06-09 22:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by Caleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start off by being his friend and slowly gaining his trust back....after a while he might want to go out with you again,if not there are plent of other guys out there
2007-06-09 23:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by broken angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he trusts you now. The only way to get him back would be to earn his trust again somehow
2007-06-09 22:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like you don't want him. That's all it ever takes. Ignore him.
2007-06-09 22:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Deb,RN,57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋