Want do you have to do to make a lot of boys like you
2007-06-09 15:53:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-06-09 15:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Max C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you is not to worry about how to be flirtacious and make boys or girls like you - just be you. Young people spend so much time imitating others and trying to "be like" someone else that you think 'has it together'. A young man once told me that when he was looking at all the girls and admiring one who stood out from the crowd because she was herself. Everybody else dressed alike, same styles, same hairdo's, everything. He said he kept watching this girl. Watched how she talked to people, how she helped people, gave of her time and respected her teachers and other adults in their school. He watched how she studied and did her homework while others were poo-pooing the teacher and making ugly comments. He watched how she was polite to others and shared. He watched how she laughed. not loud or obnoxious, but having fun. He watched how she defused a fight between two good friends and helped them make up. She took the bus everyday and everyday she had a piece of fruit for the bus driver and sat in the front, talking with everybody. Then he stepped to her and smiled at her and he knew - she was the one. He was the hunk of the school and every girl wanted him, but he had eyes for her only. She wasn't even the best dresser, or the slimmest, the most popular, or the cutest girl - she was just being herself - everyday. And he liked her for just that.
2007-06-09 16:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-09 15:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by ForensicAccountant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are a few good ideas for girsl to get lots of guys to like them.
- Always have a BIG smile on your face. Be upbeat and optimistic. Your joy spreads to others making others naturally want to be around you
- Be available! Don't be timid, be BOLD!! Go to parties, get involved! If you are still in school join as many after school programs or clubs as possible. The more you are exposed the better.
Enjoy others! Human nature suggests we enjoy those who enjoy us! (You can substitute Love for enjoy!) The nicer you are to others the nicer they'll be to you!
2007-06-09 16:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear skimpy clothes and spread your legs for everyone that walks by...but that is NOT something that is classy, admirable, or healthy. You can end up with diseases, unwanted pregnancies, rape...it's not a good path to go down. Love and respect YOURSELF and the right kind of boys will like you.
2007-06-09 15:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't necessarily have to be a flirt .if a boy like u he has his own reason...but if he is a flirter say things to make him fell emperor..like u r so strong take this for me....u r so smart can u plz help me
2007-06-09 15:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to attract the right kind of boys so i suggest that you go to a place where the people are doing positve things,you just need to be you and dont try to be someone else.the right guy will notice you,and it wont be a guy thats out for one thing keep god as your number one guy,and things will go well for you younglady.................................................god bless,and stay who you are..
2007-06-09 16:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be confident and self assured and not insecure. be happy and outgoing. take care of yourself. care about other people and want the best for them.
2007-06-09 15:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
smile alot!
don't burp alot.
get into deep conversations with them.
suggest thigns like "man...what if we were dating?"
act ilke you like them, and when people ask if you do, say you don't until you are sure they like you.
2007-06-09 15:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by azma_attack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident in who you are and take pride in what you do.
2007-06-09 15:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by claireandmouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋