2007-06-09 15:26:52 · 16 answers · asked by msstone0786 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it a secret. TRUST ME
2007-06-09 15:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by s k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you do not tell them. Get your mind on other things. Do you have a crush on him because you wish you had what your friend had? He probably isn't who you would truly and honestly want in a guy. You want someone who isn't attached. Focus your attention on other things and people.
Never let yourself go with your crush, especially if that person already has a significant other. It is not fair to your friend and you would probably no longer have a friend.
You should go and volunteer somewhere. It will keep your mind off of others significant others and you will be helping someone brighten their day. You would also brighten your day by doing a job well done.
Stay morally right and do not say anything or act on anything.
You wouldn't like it if you were your friend and vice versa happened.
2007-06-09 22:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll keep it a secret so as not to hurt my friend, the feeling will go away eventually..but if the guy shows some interest in me too, i'll tell him that the feeling is mutual but getting involved with him is out of the question. I would not throw away the frienship for such a fleeting emotion. I'll enjoy the mutual admiration club but that's just about it.
2007-06-09 23:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend even looks at her friend's boyfriend? Do you have boundary issues and lack values or something?
Listen, a crush will eventually pass so grab a spine and be a decent friend. All the best.
2007-06-09 22:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by reeksofhoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait! That's the best possible thing to do for now. Wait until they break up and wait a little bit and after they break up, let your friend know you've been crushing on him and she'll understand SOMEHOW. If you like someone, you do anything to be with that person. It's called LOVE.
2007-06-09 22:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the morals you were raised with and how you would like someone to treat you. If you had a friend who had a crush on your boyfriend would you like her to pursue it? There is a simple answer to this question and it hinges on your empathy and character and loyalty as a human being. I can guarantee you that no good will come of it.....but you do as you wish and recieve the consequences (good or bad) based on your actions.
2007-06-09 22:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a secret. But if you have to tell someone because you cant help holding it in tell a very trusted friend who will not tell anyone.Trust me I have had this happen to me before.
2007-06-09 22:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by Bluetopaz15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a secret or else your friend might hate you for it. Then you might get embarresed if the guy flirts with you it will just ruin you keep it a secret
2007-06-09 22:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your friend's boyfriend for Christ's sake.Do you wanna lose a friendship for something that won't probably work out??if you do then let him know.Otherwise keep it secret
2007-06-09 22:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him. No guy is worth betraying your friend. Would you want one of your friends to make a play for your boyfriend behind your back? No, you wouldn't. You have no right to entertain feelings for him. He belongs to someone else. Be different than a lot of people by choosing to honor your friendship with your girlfriend, rather than backstabbing her simply to satisfy your own selfish desires. You would feel terribly guilty for doing it and the guy wouldn't respect you for being so willing to stab your friend in the back.
2007-06-09 22:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋