how do you tell if your guy is still cheating on you.?

Question

MY GUY CHEATED ON ME WITH A SLUT BEG ME TO STAY WITH HIM.NOW I HAVE A FEELING THAT HE IS STILL DOING THE SAME THING

Answer 1

Do not stay with him! He'll just do it again. Once a cheater...always a cheater, I say! You need a man that will respect the fact that your his ONLY girl and there is no one else...unless you two aren't even dating.

Answer 2

I would trust your gut feeling. If that is what you felt the first time, it is the same "whispers from God" telling you that something is not right. It would be hard to trust someone like you once did after they did it the first time. Did you try counseling? I would rather leave someone if I didn't fully trust them. It takes a strong person to stay with someone who has betrayed your trust. There are guys out there that you can trust.

Answer 3

This is an important decision. The fact that you are asking this question, means to me, that you are not ready to leave him. Any reasonable person will tell you to leave him, but you need to really understand yourself.

What do you want?
Do you want to be wondering where he is?
Do you want to be paranoid about STDs?
Do you want to put up with lies?
Do you have time for all this?

or
Do you want to be single and free to find a good person?
Have more time to think about what you want and have a goal?
Be happy and spend time with your friends and family who love you?

Best wishes,

You are stronger then you think!!!!!! You will get as much support as you need from everybody, so face the truth and do the right thing!

Answer 4

I would say that your suspicions are correct!! This boyfriend of yours is playing you big time! I wonder just how many other girls he is doing this to as well as you and the other girl? Get rid of him!! You deserve someone who can be there in a honest relationship with you from the very start .. Someone that will love you,For who you are!! Not just because your convenient!! He is no good for you!! I hope that you find someone who can treat you with the respect and honor that you deserve!! I hope this has helped you and i wish you well!!

Answer 5

Do you have a feeling, or do you notice changes in his behavior around you?
And if you don't like him cheating on you, why are you still with him? Break up already.
If you just have a feeling, then you don't really have any proof that he is cheating still. He could have done it once and stopped because he felt bad, or something similar.

Answer 6

If he cheated on you once, then why are you still with him? If he already did it, then he wont be afraid to do it again. Tust me I know because my old stepdad cheated on my mom and I know all the signs I guess. You are in an unhealthy relationship and you need to get out before you get hurt again. Good luck!

Answer 7

my question to you is.... Why the Hell are you still with him if already cheated on you once!! but anyways follow your instincts,you know him better that anybody else. so nobody can really tell you how you would know. just dont jump into conclusions, oh and you should know that since he already did it once its just gonna be in the back of your head and it will make you not fully trust him even if you wanted to, good luck to ya!

Answer 8

The best way to find out if he's still cheating is if he keeps pushing you away or acting really weird around you then he could be. or better yet if you can check his phone see if any numbers are on there that you don't recognize.

Answer 9

Well their is no true way i found out mif my man would cheat by simply getting one of ur cousins which he has seen to walk up to hi m hit on him and see if he is going to take the bate and if he does u know he is no goood.

Answer 10

Girl! You need to get out of that relationship and NOW! You do not need someone like that in your life. You need a man who will treat you the right way! If he did it once, HE'LL DO IT AGAIN! TRUST ME! Good luck!