Please Help Me (Serious Answers)?

Question

Please if you have negative comments please don't answer

I want to die (bit straightforward) but i do not know why? In my lifetime no major incidents have happened, no one close has died nothing like that.

Everyday i think of suicide, death When im with my friends im fine but when im alone especially at night, its as though another person takes over, and all i can think of is me wanting die, i cry every night just wanting to die but for no reason ither than me wanting to rest and be alone ? . Why is this happening to me, please help me

Answer 1

I think you shud phone a helpline! for some support ! if you feel ok with your friends wh not think of the next time you feel like this ! and how hurt they would be if you did die ! also maybe if you had someone with you at night! ie. BF/GF thi may help as oyu wudnt be alone !

Confide in one of your friends! tell them how ou feel and ask them for help! everone feels alone at some point its human nature !

Hope this helps you out!

Answer 2

Sweetie, I'm so sorry this is happening! Do you think you might have depression? My family members suffer through this, so I can understand how you feel. Some of the symptoms of depression is having changes of sleep patterns, having crying spells (during the day or at night), and having suicidal thoughts. The first step that you should take is talk to a family member or someone that you feel comfortable to confide with. If this does not work or you don't have anybody to turn to, seek a psychiatrist or a counselor as soon as possible! They will definitely help you because their job is to make you feel better and to ease the pain. Also, a psychiatrist will put you on a treatment plan too. If you feel really suicidal now, please call these hot lines :
800-SUICIDE: 800-784-2433
National Mental Health Association- 800-969-6642
United Way Crisis Help Line: 800-233-4357
I hope that the tears go away a little at a time and I hope you get better real soon! I will make sure pray for you every night!

Answer 3

You are suffering from loneliness. It is a terrible thing. Taking your life is not a good thought, please disregard it. Many people of your age would consider taking their life, and it is something you thinkg about, but it is nor really your otpion. When people say "I want to die", they often mean "I would like a good night's sleep". Have you been sleeping well lately? This could be the cause.

Also all of us take in films, things that are said on televison. We "get in the mood" for that sort of thing and perhaps sometimes hang on to it. Have you perhaps done that? Look, don't dismiss what I have just said because you don't like it, go over it again and think about it. You can email me if you are not happy with my reply, or you want to talk some more. Hey, I am not saying my reply is the best. I can listen again and give you another perspective. I'm open. Best regards. S

Answer 4

Thomas,

I've felt this way off and on for many years. And, you've got to get some help. The worst thing is to think that you are totally alone (most likely why these feelings hit when you are alone, not when you're busy and with friends). Do you have a friend with whom you can discuss these feelings without fear of being judged? If so, please do so. You can also read about this subject, both online and in book form. I like "Suicide - The Forever Decision". It is not too preachy, but makes a lot of sense. There are suicide hotlines in all major cities. Get on Yahoo and find one close to you. These people are there to help you without fear of repercussions or judgement. I wish you luck, and hope that you take me up on these suggestions.

Answer 5

You're depressed.

You have two options.

1) Go see your doctor. Get prescribed some Prozac, and become reliant on it. Begin to slowly get over how you feel, maybe join a self help group or two. 5 years from now you'll be as right as rain. Or

2) and this is a hard option but bear with me...
You could realise what a special, unique person you are. Realise that you're powerful (you really are) and beautiful. Realise there are people who love you, and realise how worthy you are of their love. See beauty all around you, and real beauty not fake, electronic beauty. Be proud to be you, and realise that you have the power to not let ugly, soul rotting depression take over you. Banish it from your body because you're strong and brave. When the darkness starts to seep in, you get up, get out, and push the blackness away. Realise that there are people who believe you can do this, I believe you can. Say to yourself aloud right now "today i'm starting over, today my new life begins." And never look back, and when you get over the depression, feel great because you're a strong and amazing person who beat this on their own.

Answer 6

i am a 27 year old mother of two daughters and i am no expert on the way a mind works,but if i was to give you any advice at all it would be to go and see your gp.i have a sister who is only 20 and she is on anti-depressents and i think she is that way because it seems to run in my family and like you all she talked about from the age of 15 is death..i look at her now and i cannot believe the difference in her she is like a whole new person.i think that maybe you are in the same situation that she was in 5 years ago go and get some help and live your life,you will look back in 5 years time and wonder what on earth you were thinking of in the first place.there is so much death in the world don't be another one gone and forgotten.

Answer 7

I hope this is not a joke because I`ve felt the same way in the past. A black cloud has descended on me and I`ve even prayed that I won`t wake up in the morning. My attitude used to be when told"There is a light at the end of the tunnel" "Yeh it`s a train coming to run me over"
Everybody has different ways of handling depression mine, was to pack my bags and fly to Bali not knowing a soul I just tumbled drunk off the plane with nowhere to stay and by accident everything fell into place. Got to stay for free bed and board in a lovely hotel teaching English.Been 4 times

Answer 8

I agree with the other people on here who have said it sounds like you are suffering from depression. Please go see your doctor so they can begin helping you. There are also suicide hotlines that are open 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Don't be afraid to call 911 if you have a plan to hurt yourself. There is never anything wrong with asking for help. It doesn't mean you're weak or stupid, it means you are strong enough to want to get better. May God bless you and help you through this.

Answer 9

Hi, you sound clinically depressed, we all have feelings like that, life can be and is ****! It is the moment we are in, in our lives which is portrayed as complete sadness and despair. If you can get through 2nite, 2morrow will bring something new and bring a smile on your face, or a nice phone call from someone. I advise you to have great will power and fight this, you will miss out on a lot of your life and future if u do anything to harm yourself, I really do wish for you to go see your doctor and he/she can refer you to a good support network, when you talk about your problems and feelings you have inside things dont always seem so bad, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, believe me, i've been there pet

Answer 10

You need to see a doctor as soon as possible. That is severe depression.

Some people's brains do not produce enough "happy chemicals" called serotonin. That is the case for me, and may be for you too. But go in and talk to someone who specializes in depression (doctor/psychiatrist).

I just started anti-depressants, because nothing else I tried worked, and I was getting worse. After 5 days, things are improving in my mood.

You may even consider calling a crisis hotline. But seek help, there is nothing wrong with that.

Answer 11

You are suffering from clinical depression, and it's very important that you get this treated, because it is a potentially life-threatening illness, as you can see.

Depression can occur for many reasons, and often there is no easy-to-pinpoint cause. It can even be a vitamin deficiency or something like that.

Please go to a psychiatrist. There is no shame in this, because as I said, anything can cause depression, and it most certainly is not your fault that you have this.

There is help for this. If you feel suicidal again, please call a suicide hotline. Call 411 if you don't know their number locally, and ask them to connect you. Or just go to the ER. I am suffering from severe depression right now and my doctor told me if I started to have suicidal thoughts, to go to the ER. It is very important to get this treated.

I wish you the best.