When I say in love I mean really in love. Like feeling that he is the one you can be with forever.
2007-06-09 13:01:12 · 20 answers · asked by TheTruthHurts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are in love with something special about each man. but look deep and see what each one does that gets on your nerves. one might be a sports freak and if you dont,can youstand a game being more important than you every night? do you have the desire to be on the side until thegame is over. they could be a heavy drinker? do you want to baby sit him while hes having fun and you have to drive him home and deal with him the next day. search hard and look at the negative too. youll find your answer
2007-06-09 13:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, you sure can. I know, having been there. But I had
to be rational. And the indecision was eating me up. Each
had good qualities.And one showed his affection much more.
The other was more sexual attraction tho, and I think we
both felt it. I had to weigh alot of things, and then I had trouble
at home with parents, dating,and just not knowing what I was
going to do. I had even an engagement ring. So what did I
do, I joined the army. I ran away. I had to have time away to
think things over and get my head clear. So things calmed
down. And I had to focus on other things, and taking respon-
sibility for the first major time in my life. I was forced to really
grow up. And while I was learning a skill and marching and
learning more about life, I met a guy or two and and then
one more who I felt was my soul mate. My real soul mate.
No sexual attraction, just love with a capital "L". He and I had
eyes for each other as soon as he walked into the room.
I was having a coke on a blind date, with a girlfriend and her date.
Well, from that day on, we've been a couple. Oh there were some rocky times, but we waded thru them all. We were engaged after one week of knowing each other. And married at the end of two. And we've been together for about 45 years. And he's still my soul mate :).
2007-06-09 13:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. some people even choose to be with more than one person forever. but most of the time one guy or the other works out when the other doesn't, or some sort of drama happens that screws both relationships up. Be honest with yourself about what you want. And be kind.
2007-06-09 13:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. That's just lust and not true love. When it's really love, it's just one guy. If anyone says they're in love with 2 people at the same time, it means that they don't love either person.
2007-06-09 13:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.it is but u just have to follow your heart and go with the one you think is better for u.and if they make you choose dont choose either cux one will be hurt.if u do choose one and the other doesnt mind thats good because if they wer really great friends then they wouldnt mind cux they love you too and they wants wats best for u.and they want u to have a man that will make u happy and be in ur life forever...even if its not him.anyways i wish u the best of luck and figure out which one u want and makes u happy.^____^
2007-06-09 13:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unquestionably, you confident can. i understand, having been there. yet I had to be rational. And the indecision became ingesting me up. each and every had sturdy traits.And one confirmed his affection lots extra. the different became extra sexual charm tho, and that i think of we the two felt it. I had to weigh alot of issues, and then I had complication at living house with mom and dad, relationship,and basically no longer understanding what i became going to do. I had even an engagement ring. So what did I do, I joined the army. I ran away. I had to have time away to think of issues over and get my head sparkling. So issues calmed down. and that i had to concentration on different issues, and taking respon- sibility for the 1st substantial time in my life. i became compelled to truly strengthen up. And whilst i became discovering a potential and marching and discovering extra approximately life, I met a guy or 2 and and then one extra who I felt became my soul mate. My actual soul mate. No sexual charm, basically love with a capital "L". He and that i had eyes for another as quickly as he walked into the room. i became having a coke on a blind date, with a woman chum and her date. properly, from that day on, we've been a pair. Oh there have been some rocky situations, yet we waded with the aid of all of them. We have been engaged after one week of understanding one yet another. And married on the top of two. And we've been mutually for type of 40 5 years. And he continues to be my soul mate :).
2016-10-07 04:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh Yea that is SOOOOOOO possible.....I've gone through it once....It tore me apart......The bad thing is I was in love with bestfriends......It took me forever to get over them....It is very possible and it's hard to decide or just let go...I let go because I was told that they both liked me but i liked them both b4 i was told that.....So yes is the answer.
2007-06-09 13:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by RandomKYGurl(<3KY) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,not real love you just think you are in love because you like them both,when you find real love than you will know it can only be one.
2007-06-09 13:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can be in love with two guys because being in love is giving you entire self to one person and if ur giving it to two people that means your holding back from both of them. you could love them bout but not be in love with them both.
2007-06-09 13:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible because love is all expansive and is not based on conditions for it to exist.
2007-06-09 13:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋