I always worry what people think of me both appearance wise and personality wise. I sometimes wish I could look like this person I always been insecure because I have been rejected and called ugly before which has really effected me. I never believe I have any potential.
2007-06-09 12:45:13 · 6 answers · asked by sweet girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You need to start believing in yourself... and loving yourself~ We all have bad qualities and good qualtities. If you keep feeling and telling yourself that your worthless with no potential then, my dear, thats what your fate will be. How you feel on the inside reflects on the outside... I know thats a little cliche, but it is SO SO SO true. And someone called you ugly? Get over it... they're ugly..Infact ANYONE who puts down another person for whatever reason is ugly on the inside.. I don't know about you...but whats the point of being beautiful on the outside if your an ugly person on the inside??
2007-06-10 04:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by busymum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comparing yourself to others and trying to copy someone else doesn't make you any better. It doesn't even make you anyone. I say, forget that you think you look "ugly". Believe that you are beautiful, inside and out. Personality wise, you can build your confidence up by letting loose and being free. You might think you will probably look stupid, and you most likely will have your taste of embarrassment once in a while, but if you let it not bother you, people will realize that you aren't totally unconfident. I hope this helps.
2007-06-09 20:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you've never done anything where you ventured out took a risk and accomplished something on your own. If you were I guy, I could help more, but either way...you need to go do something you think you can't do, but really want to. And after you accomplish it, you will have other people looking at you wishing they could do it too. Fear is what holds most people back....once you get past if, you will have others looking at you wishing they could get past it too!
2007-06-09 19:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by BA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your words make me sick! Grow up! Since you have to be told what to do, what to think, what to wear, why not join the military? You are a member of the herd, you seem to worship the herd so much that it has left you stuck in a void that you will never be able to crawl out of. At best you could be a masochist, and if so then you are enjoying what I am telling you, and if this is the case then learn how to enjoy this fetish, it is all that you have left!
2007-06-09 19:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tier Instinct 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Low self-esteem is a bear to live with. Fake it until you make it.
Learn to like yourself then you won't care whether others do or not. Learn to walk in awe of the ability and vessel you have in which to experience life. It's truly amazing ; )
2007-06-09 19:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give some time to your self buy a dress that flatters u or some thing then when u think u r beutfull and strong other ppl will start to beleve it to.good luck luv
2007-06-09 19:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋