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I believe he told my biggest secret that I told him in confidence to his mistress.

Serious answers only, please. No comments like, "film him with a boy."

2007-06-09 12:33:47 · 12 answers · asked by artsy_lovely_lady 5 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

I didn't know he had a mistress when I confided in him. And after I confided in him, he started hitting on me, but I looked the other way like I didn't know he was doing that, and then I discovered he had a mistress who was very jealous of me. I suspect he told her my secret to make her feel better.

2007-06-09 12:42:51 · update #1

No, I'm not lying. This is a real nightmare. I don't know what to believe anymore.

2007-06-09 12:52:04 · update #2

12 answers

the word say do not repay evil with evil, reviling with reviling.

but forgive them that despitfuly use you.

you will reap that which you so. this goes for this priest as well.

if he has sowed betrayal he will be betrayed much more than that which he did to you.

if you seek revenge then you will reap much worse down the road when those you wrong take vengance on you.

2007-06-09 12:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by lewbiv 3 · 0 1

I hope this is not some kind of a bad joke, for your sake.

If you are Catholic you understand that through Holy Orders priests are changed in a sacramental way (through God's direct intervention into this world) into a human that is closer in ways we don't understand to Christ Himself. This doesn't mean that a priest can't sin by having a mistress or whatever.

We Catholics don't get "revenge" on anyone but pray for them. If someone harms you, for your faith especially, pray for them. As God did in dying for us sinful ones, return good for evil.

Yours, Grace

2007-06-09 19:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 4 · 0 1

I do not think "revenge" is the right way to go. But perhaps there is someone you can talk to, someone "higher" up then him.
A priest should NEVER disclose any information (I believe unless a person says they are going to commit a murder) to anyone.

2007-06-09 19:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Beverly B 6 · 1 0

No need for revenge, just stop going to church. Religion is a lie, only delusional people or psychopaths can become priest. Never trust them.

2007-06-09 19:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Film him with a boy.

Juuuuuust kidding. Tell him you feel betrayed, and let him and everyone else that knows the both of you that he cannot be trusted.

2007-06-09 20:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't understand Catholic politics. If this were a church pastor I would bring him up before the church boards. Then ask the church to dismiss him.. In your case maybe a visit to his superior.. Jim

2007-06-09 20:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Troll. Atheist proselytizing

2007-06-09 19:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by swindled 7 · 0 2

If he is hitting on you, then video that. Video him with his mistress.

Why do you want revenge?


If you want to keep a secret - DON"T TELL ANYONE!

Just move on with your life.

2007-06-09 19:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Simon T 7 · 0 1

he has a mistress??? aren't priests supposed to be celibate?
if you knew that, why did you confide in him???

2007-06-09 19:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lenore P 3 · 2 0

PRAY FOR HIM he needs a wake up call from HIM

2007-06-09 19:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by jusjoe 3 · 1 2

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