I broke up with my BF a week ago because he has an immature side that craves attention from other women. he has like ten girls ringing his phone off the hook, but he claims he never cheated. I got tired of it because I feel disrespected, and phone calls can lead to other things. I broke up w/ him b4, but he always begged for us to get back together. I always took him back. This time, I've been stern, and I noticed a change in him when i talk to him. He's been having sex w/ other girls, and I'm no longer important to him. I broke up w/ him because I wanted him to realize I was serious, and I wanted him to SHOW me he was serious by doing something special for me and apologizing. He hasn't done anything but tried to have sex with me. No gift, no apology, no sincerity. Now I'm sad because I feel like it's completely over, and that is not what I wanted. I want things to get better. I want him to change because i really want 2 be w/ him. If i ask 4 him back, I'll look stupid What do I do?
2007-06-09 11:14:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got what you asked for! You cant break up with a boyfriend cause you expect him to change. It sounds like you two are to young to be dating anyways, because if you were older, and if he loved you, he would get rid of other girls. Guys don't change because you want them to.
2007-06-09 11:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by rachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds to me like you phrased it perfectly in your question. Say everything that you're feeling. You're an honest and articulate person and I've never known you put someone down for no reason. I don't know why she'd take this so personally. It's not like your only reason for going online was to talk to her. She needs to understand that you have a life outside of your friendship too. I can see why all of what I just wrote would offend someone who was unwilling to see another person's side of things. And why you used the phrase, "swallow your pride." This sounds like a tough situation because although you really didn't do anything wrong, her feelings were hurt. Believe me, I've found myself on both sides of this situation more than once. And I've swallowed my pride many times. My best advice is that you apologize for hurting or offending her, but don't let her wallow in it or throw it back in your face time after time. You shouldn't have to apologize for the same thing over and over again, especially if you really didn't do anything wrong.
2016-04-01 12:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems to be an unfaithful, man-hoe who wants nothing but sex. You mind as well look for someone that respects you as a true lover and respects your friends/family. There are always someone better than your boyfriend that's for sure.
2007-06-09 11:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems that ur the one playin a game..im sry to say that but it tru u only broke up wit him so u guys could get back together thats not the way to handle it if he doin that then u dont need him u could prob do better... move on..once u get a new "MAN" & see how happy u are he'll want u back then it be too late..
good luck
2007-06-09 11:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the time, look for someone new that likes YOU! Don't expect someone to change for you, they will always go back to who they really are!
2007-06-09 11:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by skyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss chick, Hon he sounds like a wild dog. You deserve better ! Move on or you"ll be hurting as long as you give him attention !
2007-06-09 11:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...fast....they don't change. Men like that (believe me I have one) don't change. All they think about is themselves....get rid of him and don't look back. There are plenty others who would really want you and not do those things to you.
2007-06-09 20:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it really doesn't sound like your relationship was going to last. It's better, if you can, to just move on and find someone who is really ready to commit to a relationship. Good luck!!
2007-06-09 11:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has 10 girls that he stays up with even when dating you, he is just playing you for the fool...i would have moved on long ago...
2007-06-09 11:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Steelhead 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lEAVE HIM FOR GOOD AND FIND SOMEONE NEW. HE IS A LOSER AND IT IS BETTER THAT YOU FOUND OUT ASAP. HE WILL REALIZE THAT HE F****D UP AD IT WILL BE TOO LATE BUT; YOU ARE NOT GIVING HIM TIME TO MISS YOU BY CALLING HIM, HE KNOWS THAT YOU HAVE TAKEN HIM BACK SEVERAL TIMES SO HE KNOWS HOW TO PULL YOUR STRINGS. BE STRONG AND WALK AWAY FROM IT ALL.
2007-06-09 11:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋