(assuming that they are two different people) and plz do tell me the reason behind ur choice....
2007-06-09 10:19:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY GUYZ!actualy this is not related to me,i was just curius...
2007-06-09 10:45:12 · update #1
you may want the one that u want so bad.. but you will never get them if thier feelings arent the same... the guy who does want you on the other hand.. apreciates u.. where as the one u like doesnt...... love people who love you, dont chase someone your not meant to be with.
2007-06-09 10:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Choose YOU!!! Choosing either of them is a loss! Allow me to explain:
Let's say you choose guy number 1. He is the one you love, but doesn't love you! Well...that ought to explain it's self. The best you can expect from him is some good sex. He doesn't care for you! You will be giving and never receiving. You will break your own heart. He will use, better yet you will use yourself!
Let's say you choose guy number 2. He loves you. He will shower you and be there for you. But once again you will play yourself. You will be settling. If he wasn't good enough for you to fall, he won't be good enough for you to settle. You will be unhappy. This is one reason cheating is at an all-time high. Settling should be a sin.
Let's say you take my advice and choose you. Sure you will let go of these two guys, but you will also give yourself a chance to find someone you love and have them love you back!
I choose you!
2007-06-09 17:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose either of them. Pick Door Number 3. If you choose the one you love, you will never feel loved inside. If you choose the one who loves you, you will always wonder what could have been. The answer is:go find a third with whom you can share love.
2007-06-09 17:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mature Witch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Both are going to end up a disappointment for you. If the first guy doesn't love you back, then that's going nowhere. And to spend time with one who loves you but you don't love isn't fair to him. Start fresh and find the right guy.
2007-06-09 17:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Well you cant help who you love, but i would give the other person who loves you a shot, you never know what will come out of it. If you still dont like him, then move on and maybe the guy who you like will like you back one day
2007-06-09 17:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sandoll21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one who loves you you will be hurt if you love someone who doesent love you back but if you cant find yourself in that person i say move on from both either way you may get hurt be cautious peace
2007-06-09 17:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, Love is absolute, if it is not on both sides the relationship will fail, find another and if there is love on both sides then your going to have a great relationship
2007-06-09 17:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by versitalbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither would make me happy in the long run!
If I HAD to choose.....
I would choose the one who loves me. The reason is that I won't have to worry about infidelity and know that I am "the one".
2007-06-09 17:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats a good question...if you chose the one you love, there is a possiblity of him falling in love with you. but if he doesnt then you are stuck with nothing. then if you chose the one who loves you, you could possible fall for him but then again you might not. idk i think i would chose the one that loves me. i would get to know them and who know maybe something will spark. but if he loves you then you know you wont have problems with cheating or lying or anything like that and he will always be there for you. but thats just me. idk i might even just wait to find someone that i love and loves me too! ultimately its your decision. good luck and i hope you get everything you want!
2007-06-09 17:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question to ask the masses especially seeing that you barely provided us with enough information. Without a bit more details you will get stupid responses. Just edit your question by adding a bit more information so whoever else answers will be able to put more thought into their responses.
2007-06-09 17:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋