I'm a woman. I'm 21 with a great job. I don't have any kids. I love sports, but also am pretty girly. Most people think I am very pretty. I'm fun to be around. But still I am single. Please don't waste your time saying maybe my breath stinks and things like that. It's nothing like that at all! There is nothing wrong with me physically or mentally. Every man ask how is it possible for me to be single. Well, I don't understand it either. What could it be?
2007-06-09 10:18:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God has plans for all of us. It is simply not time for your to concentrate on men. Obviously he wants something more for you at this time in your life.
Just wait, love happens when you least expect it.
God bless you!
2007-06-09 10:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you are so confident, and attractive men are scared to approach you. That dosn;t mean anything is wrong with you, and is nothing against you. Men can get scared to ask a lady who they may feel is out of there league out, if thats the case with you it is a compliment to you.
Mr right will come alone I promise, I am asking myself the same question as you. I have my own house, good job, I am kind and caring and don't know why I am single either.
If you want to chat, message me.
2007-06-09 10:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because your prettiness intimidates those who wish to ask you out. You should act more normal and un girly. Usually girly people act more high than the rest of the people, if you know what I mean. There are many people that may want to ask you out but can't find the guts to ask out someone like you because they are afraid to get rejected or something. Good luck!
2007-06-09 10:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sk8erchik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. I wish I knew why boys never really asked ME out. My mom, no, everybody says beautiful. And yet, not ONE "romantic" thing has happened to me. In fact, I'm broken-hearted. But Starla_C is right. God wouldn't give you the moment when it wasn't for it. He does what is best for us. He knows our future, we don't. I try to tell myself that, as well, and I know it's hard. Really hard. But we can't expect everything we want right when we want it. Just let your story flow and the moment will come when you least expect it. The more you think about it, it'll only make worse for you. Keep praying, though. That's showing Him that you're ready.
There are billions and billions of men out there (for me, in most cases, it can be a bad thing. lol.), and only one is perfect for you. God has plans for him, as well. I betcha he has the same problem as you. "Patience" is my real advice here. And "trust".
2007-06-10 06:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by .~*:Royale:*~. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men are intimidated by a womans beauty, they feel that they can't possibly compeat with the other men in your life so they don't even try.
They just assume you have been with lots of good looking successful men and don't take the time to ask.
Unfortunately that is the curse of being beautiful, but its the same for good looking men.
2007-06-09 10:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what is wrong with you! You are listening to people that don't have a clue what Love really is! Somehow you know deep down what it really is and you know that it will happen when it is suppose to and that trying to push it will not work. Your one in a million and you will find the perfect relationship and be happy the rest of your life, Just stop listening to the dorks out there.
2007-06-09 10:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by versitalbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could be one of three things....either guys are intimidated by you in which case ur just gonna have to wait i know it sounds liek something u have herad before.....or maybe you arent confident enough....and well look at all the things you said you cant not be confident you have everything going for you...or maybe you're chasing and that scares them away in which case you have to just wait and not chase go to a club have fun adn dnt worry
2007-06-09 10:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by sdmk@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I want an asnwer to teh same question..."Why do prettiest and smartest girls always have trouble with relationships?"
I think that's like asking "Who's God?"
But if I answered this bluntly, I'd say all guys around you are stupid because none of them are asking you out. :)
2007-06-09 10:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Attila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are asking what everyone does have you ever been in a relationship? if so and you are still in good terms with your exes ask them what they thought of you and go from there. personally i think you sound great and you're still young so just wait before you know it you will be in an amazing relationship
2007-06-09 11:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by girlcreole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not you with the problem. it's the guys. a lot of guys can be intimidated because you have your stuff together at a very young age. nothing wrong with that. or a lot of guys "like" girls who put out. sorry to say, but it's true.
2007-06-09 10:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Cookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋