Should I wait forever on her to call back?

Question

I've know this girl for about 3 years and we've been hanging out with each other a lot lately, like an entire 26 hours together and we slept only 4 of those, we spent the night in the same bed and I believe she was giving me signs to kiss her, I was like 95% sure, but I held back. A few days after that we hung out and I said, there is something I have been meaning to do for a long time, and I leaned in for a kiss. She pulled back and I said what can I not kiss you? She said don't make it any harder and don't be disheartened, and she said she was going through drama and I asked if that mattered and she said she didn't know why it did but it did. She then said she's thought about it and held it back, I said I had too. She then said don't worry it'll happen. We've hung out since then and everything seems normal. She called me out of the blue one day after that and asked if I wanted to come over to her house and hang out for a while and I came over we watched TV and talked until she had to work. I’ve visited her at work as usual. I asked her out to dinner recently, not really as a date but not really as friends, it wasn't classified. She asked if her married friend could come along, I didn't want to be mean and said yes, because it technically wasn't a date. While we ate she seemed more flirty and touchy feely towards me then usual. Then her and her friend were throwing peanuts at each other and one went down her shirt, I’m not sure if she was joking but she said do you want to get that to me. I was laughing too hard and said I’ll get the next one. She goes oh you'll get the next one? I said yes. Then we went to hang out after dinner and while she was telling a story, she kept touching my face to prove her point. Then we went bowling, while we were bowling she said something to her friend, when I asked what she said, her friend said she said she likes you. Then the girl I like said that’s not what I said, then I asked her what she said and she said oh your falling behind the bowling game. Then once we were on our way home she mentioned this other guy she likes that her dad is trying to hook her up with, that she has mentioned before and she keeps telling me she likes. I'm not sure if she's telling me that to make me jealous or what. But she has went to where this other guy works and left her number for him, and when she mentioned him she said I wonder if he got my number. Then when she got home and after I got home, she called me to say thank you, we talked on the phone for another hour, then I told my mother goodnight and I love you too while I was on the phone. Then the girl said oh you do? I said well yea, but I was actually talking to my mom. She said I know I just wanted to see what you said. The next day I visited her at work and we discussed going out again we didn't set up a time or date we just ensured that we would. I talked to her the next day on the phone for a few minutes about getting a job where I work and how to apply then about random stuff, then her mom said something, then she said I know and said she had to go. The next day I called her and told her what my people at work had said in a voicemail, then asked if she wanted me to rent a movie and bring it over to her house to watch that night since she was off. I called her yesterday and I haven't heard from her since the day she called about the job which was 4 days ago, she hasn't returned my calls. This weekend she's out of town with her family. I called her again this morning, I've left her two message over the past 5 days including the one today, and she hasn't called back. Should I wait until about Monday to call her again or should I let her call me regaurdless of how long it takes for her to call me back even if its never? Is she avoiding me or am I being played or am I over analyzing things? Based on the way i'm reading her she likes me so whats up with the avoiding if she is?

Answer 1

youare being played dump her and find a nice girl . good luck .

Answer 2

Wow that was defiantly LONG, my eyes hurt from reading it. lol, well she could have left her phone at home or uncharged so she didn't get the message. Or maybe she is just taking time to think, if she likes u or not. I cant tell u what to do but do what u think is right, maybe call her once more, but after that i would let it go, u dint to look desperate

Answer 3

In usual conditions,we can feel 5 kind of senses,
eyesight sense,hearing sense,smell sense,taste sense
and touch sense.And we can get a very deep enjoyment of
experience of every thing,when we get all of above senses
together.

One of these experience is Sexuality expreience,you can
get a very deep enjoyment of sexiness experience,when you
involved all of your senses.

In the Masturbation we can just involved one sense(touch sense) of five senses
so we can't rich the other senses and they will get severe strain about enjoyment.

If we can't leave it,it is admissible only with our partner because we can get
some of senses with him or her.

And at the end of this answer,when we can make a real love and sex experience
why do Masturbation.

Answer 4

simply by fact men stay in a thoroughly distinctive time zone as women human beings. in the event that they continually referred to as or arrived on time, we'd lose interest and that could harm the cat and mouse chase that incredibly everyone loves, yet refuses to admit.

Answer 5

Move on. If and when she is ready,she will call you.But it seems it wont happen.Anyways,who wants a girl with alot of drama? Not anyone I know.

Answer 6

L0l aw poor babe. Go find a new girl like me =]] im a sweet girl.

Answer 7

IF she is interested she will let U know. Dont hold your breathe.

Answer 8

you're her backup plan

Answer 9

no