Okay so I finally met the woman of my dreams and she really truly is unbelieveable- she's drop dead gorgeous and smart and funny and just amazing in bed and I'm head over heels in love with her and she's in love with me too! I haven't actually figured this part out yet. She's completely out of my league so I never really thought I could get her, but somehow I did. We've been seeing each other for almost a year now and I still can't believe how lucky I am but here's the problem: I keep screwing up cos I can't stay away from this other girl and I have no idea why. I keep lying to my girlfriend about this situation but she always seems to know. I don't know why I can't seem to stay away from the other girl since she is downright unattractive and treats me like crap! I never even got past first base with this skank yet I keep pursuing her. My girlfriend blows this chick away in every way. If I get caught again I'm going to lose my girlfriend for sure. Why do i do this/how do I stop?
2007-06-08 22:18:27 · 6 answers · asked by maverick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just stop it . If you truly love your girlfriend every time you see the girl think of how much you love your girlfriend and how you dont want to ruin it with her! ..sort it out dude cos u could end p breaking some1's heart !
2007-06-08 22:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by alainamorgan@hotmail.com m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your setting yourself up to lose the girl of your dreams because you never believed you were good enough for her in the first place. Start believing that you deserve this awesome girl... after all you've been together for a year AND she's put up with you cheating. You say this other girl is an ugly skank... do really believe that you belong at that level? Stop thinking and acting like your going to lose the girl you love and you won't lose her.
2007-06-09 05:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scored the woman of your dreams, and now you think you should be able to land any woman. After all, if you can get this amazing woman, then a "lesser" woman should be an easy mark. Right?
Oh, but she keeps turning you down? That's odd. Maybe you're not Mr. Amazing after all. Well if you just try a little harder maybe you can piss off both of them and be single, with a restraining order to keep you company.
Basically, you need to start thinking with the head on your shoulders instead of the one in your pants.
2007-06-09 05:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say she's not anything like your girlfriend then just stay away from the skank. Or you will end up losing the love of your life.
2007-06-09 05:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you're in deep sh*t! maybe the reason why you can't stay away from the other girl is because you're being challenged, subconsciously, for whatever reason. dump the other girl and stay focused with you're current one. after all, as you've put it, she loves you and the other one treats you like crap. don't let your ego overcome you...if you know what i mean. some people doesn't know what they have till they're gone...you might wanna remember that.
2007-06-09 05:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mek of the MACHINE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First do me a favor and slap your-self.
sounds like your takeing what you got for granted. A girl like the one you got, only comes once in a life time. She's putting her heart on the line and your messing things up for not only her, but your-self as well.
Just use your common sense and make your pick.
Good Luck!!!
2007-06-09 05:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋