Have any of you discovered someone had a crush on you? How did you find out (besides if they told you or someone else told you)
I need to know because I need to know how aggressive I should be with talking to my crush so that she doesn't suspect anything out of the norm.
Since I normally don't talk to her too much, what would be appropriate conversations or things to do so that she doesn't suspect anything.
Does throwing papers at her and stuff like that work? or is that to obvious.
I'm in high school btw
I need help
2007-06-08 19:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time and get to know her as if she were a new friend. If you still think she is fun and enjoy her company, ask her if she would like to hang out with you and your friends. She might have so much fun with you that she will start to wonder how you feel about her.
2007-06-08 19:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mizzshutterbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throwing papers is juvenile and so 5th grade. You shouldn't be aggressive at all. Be casual and polite. Don't try to be what everyone else is. Be yourself. Help her with homework, ask her what answer she got for whatever. If you have the same class or textbook, ask to borrow it for homework or something.
2007-06-09 02:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she look at you often? Don't try to be "buds" with her right away, she would suspect something. gradually earn her respect and her friends. if you are friends with her friends, then possibly they will tell you. After earning her trust and being her friend ask her to prom, homecoming, or whatever. Just don't rush. in any relationship, there should be friendship first and then whatever. i hope this works out for you!
2007-06-13 01:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by [: I LOVE JESUS :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah i thought u were btw u were saying it... umm well im a girl so i would know anywayz.. so this guy liked me but his twin told me that he wanted to go w/ me to the prom... yeah thats how i knew.. so u dont talk to her that much right?? well if u have any classes w/ her try to talking to her.. maybe even flirting a little but dont make it too obvious idk if u got dat.. try to be nice but dont be too nice if she asks u to do sometin for her try to give her a negative answer at first but if u can say yes a little later after she begs... some convos are about classes and events that are happening be friendly make her like u as a friend and go from der
2007-06-09 02:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cheezycheecks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throwing papers is obvious and annoying just be nice to her greet her ask her whats she doing pretrend you are interested in what she is doing ask her help with some work just to make conversation talk about a movie or a sporting event just make general conversation.
2007-06-09 02:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by dyna_ryan_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in high school too. Well I can only assume that he liked me.
he would stare
kind of be every where I was.
try to sit next to me.
I never showed him that I liked him which I totally regret. but as always people move on
2007-06-09 02:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound so young and painful, life is short fellow, girls like guys who wear their feelings--do it! Act like shes all that, act like you feel. If shes not into it, nurse your pride, but hey your what its about! Not hiding your emotions, go for it in life, plenty of girls will eat it up. I'm hot and always thought a guy had good taste if he flirted, even if i wasn't into him, he had good taste!
2007-06-09 02:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they'd come n tell u
2007-06-09 02:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Đαйιэłłє 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋