Hi my name is david,im 15 and i have never had a girlfriend.i have never kissed a girl.i dont think im shy but scared about it.another thing is my mom once told me i have no friends,she was joking but it has stuck to me for a long time,like for exaple if I instant message a person and they dont reply,or I text someone and they dont reply,to me its like they dont like me,i know thats not the case but my head has got that in,please put me at ease.
2007-06-08 18:17:03 · 38 answers · asked by bluehaze45981 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 15 too. I have the same situtation for the most part but i think everything will get better and i look at the positive side.
2007-06-08 18:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Powerbar 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have seen on another site all week hi im 13 and pregnant what am i gonna do.i think now in this generation there is a lot of pressure from mates/friends thet if you havent kissed or been to bed with someone by 14 then there must be something wrong with you.there is no pressure.your young yet,my son 17 and has no girlfriend,and yes everyone has a fear of kissing and stuff unrill you actually do it.dont worry your not alone.relax and enjoy life.ans as for any friends who think its so cool to be kissing and stuff.let them carry on,stand back and watch,cause they normally end up in trouble like being pregnant or a dad at 14 .
2007-06-08 21:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh brother! Cool down, OK?! It's fine. I'm 15, too. I've never kissed a guy and hardly had good males around me. I face the same stuff as you do like that IM wxample you gave. But I don't let it get me. I assure you when the time comes you will find that special someone. I promise you'll get her. Till then make good friends and enjoy yourself. Respect yourself. Be original. You don't have to frea out coz you don't have a gf. If you like someone then go ahead and ask her out. It's no big deal. Don't worry about the outcome. Be confident coz girls prefer those guys who know how to carry themselves among girls..confident guys attract girls..Good luck!
2007-06-08 21:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♫ Pearl Jam ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real question ( some people ask stupid question out of boredom) ... you sound depressed, and lonely... and the effects that depression can have on you, those close to you, and any hope for a social life is devastating. ask your mother if she could help you get a councilor just for you to have someone to help you work through some insecurities and sadness you have. they have to not tell anyone what you talk about.... its safe and could really help... also if you are depressed and in denial, you really could be driving people away without even knowing it, and devastating any hope for a social life or relationship. Better to get help now than later when making bad decisions because of depression... life isn't just about getting kissed.... definitely not at the top of the priority list.
2007-06-08 18:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, about the gf/not kissing part: I never had a boyfriend until I was 18, so don't worry. Everything you wrote mirrors my life. I had "friends" but they never really responded to me. My mother told me I didn't have any friends, and it stuck with me, too. But, as I continued to think about it, I realized I did need new friends. Just make some new buds to hang with, and don't worry about not having a girlfriend - we girls are much too high maintenance anyways for a 15 year old. Just be a kid, don't worry, make some different friends, and things will work itself out as you grow up.
2007-06-08 18:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by singerofthepiano 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
uh oh, get that thinking out of your head or you'll become the annoying guy that always stalker text messages everyone!
haha don't worry, you're 15...that's like a baby! I don't think I had my first kiss until after that anyway.
be confident and things will come to you.
if you end up being 35 and this is still an issue then post your question again ;)
2007-06-08 18:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your lack of experience when you find the right girl u'll be able to get some everyone has to have a first time! As for the other thing don't let it get u down! You have friends they just might be busy or whatever at that moment and not have time to text or IN!
2007-06-09 04:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 before I kissed a guy, and I ended up being a really hot ticket in my 20's. Don't worry, some people are just late bloomers. You're mom probably didn't mean it like that, but I think she should have been more careful with your feelings. But just be nice and friendly with everyone, but mysterious also, and it will pay off.
2007-06-08 18:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
hey....MUAH! there....i kissed u and now u've been kissed....don't be bumbed.....i know it's hard for guys in that area but u r so not alone......who cares what ur mom said.....u r ur own person living ur own life and there is so much of it ahead u....u will experience everything in due time...just don't worry about it .....peer pressure is hell so don't associate with it and be the stronger person....girls like that better trust me.....i wish i knew u when i was fifteen cause i was little miss inoscent feeling the same way...i think we would have hit it off...i had never been kissed for real and i felt left out but....but my first kiss wasn't until after i graduated and i never felt ashamed....everbody's life is different and happens at a different pace
2007-06-08 18:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by truegrit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
DOn't wory about it Dave. You seem to be an average teenager. THere are millions of teenagers all over the world that haven't kissed or had a girlfriend before. My suggestion to you is to focus in school and try to achieve as much as possible in life.
This sounds cliche but, life throws things at you when you least expect it....
2007-06-08 18:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lou 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋