i am a filipino. being raised &brought up here in my own country i acquired most of the traits a traditional filipino has.but i am a very open minded person.there's only 1 thing that i strongly opposes to...the issue on premarital sex...or giving out one's virginity...especially on women because i strongly believe,that such should only be given to the right person.The Person WE ARE GOIN TO MARRY!!!to preserve the honor & dignity which supposedly be the last thing to be snatched from us.i have asked this because for so many years now i witness the growing medium of immorality.TV,movies,& even on papers which they often tell for public info...truth is purely business.i have to mention this 2 example.this "CFF.com & GGWild". aren't they ashamed of what they're doing???where's their self preservation & self respect?someday they'll be CEO's & Prexy's of bigtime companies or mothers of a gifted children...what happens then???
2007-06-08 17:24:21 · 7 answers · asked by joefel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think its up to the person to decide when and to whom they want to lose their virginity to. I believe as long as you love the person and have no hesitation in having sex with them, then its okay. Personally I'm waiting until marriage, how ever i dont look down on others that have had sex before marriage. I have plenty of friends, family, even my mother has...i definately think its your choice.
2007-06-08 17:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by s0o_hypn0tik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take so hard men, it's just culture.
If we live in a biblic times, we find lots of human faults or moral faults.
The virgin is not a present to gift (it's my personal point of view), it's so simply as a condition like loyalty, hope, or another. If you want, when you want it, this moral presepts can be broken.
What is the diference between role of male or female sexuality?
Why you thing that wimen must be conserve virginity and male not?
Is so dirty for both.
Extramarital sex relations, only you know if your couple isn't love full. This is your responsability, the actions of another are your responsability (individually). So you don't worry, just make best your job. The other responsabilities appart.
Traditionalist education works, i have it. But other mentalities or solve-problem ways are not my business.
2007-06-08 17:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Demian S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you're completely right...i was raised to believe pre-marital sex is wrong so I'm still a virgin...i think its wrong and immoral for not just girl but men to to loose their virginity before they are married. a lot of people look down on girls for being promiscuous and high-five guys for doing the same things. all I'm saying is i think its wrong for both sexes. anyway...so...yea...
2007-06-08 17:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetest Chocolate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so do you believe that it's alright for men to be promiscuous before marriage and not women? men are going to be parents one day too. people are who there are. i'm not going to try to figure it out. i'm just going to pray that my daughter never ends up on one of those tapes.
2007-06-08 17:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a virgin but I don't regret the guy I slept with because I still love him and he still loves me.
2007-06-08 17:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with what it is that you're saying!
The morals of this country are in the toilet!
2007-06-08 17:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah! I support you.
2007-06-08 17:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by wildwildwest 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋