Have you ever listened to someone's burdens?

Question

Has anyone listened to someone else's sad story out of respect? Someone that you knew or even didn't know? How does this make you feel? Do you feel like the person has added some burden that you didn't need? Or it helped you with your own burdens.
For me, listening to other people's lives makes me feel good about my life. Sometimes, I can solve my problems by listening.

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"Listening to your heart, finding out who you are, is not simple. It takes time for the chatter to quiet down. In the silence of 'not doing' we begin to know what we feel. If we listen and hear what is being offered, then anything in life can be our guide.
Listen.

I realize this doesn't say God or Jesus or the Bible in it. But, I wanted to ask a question based so everyone has a chance to answer it. (Of any religion or not.)

You might consider a new job? :)

I am sorry I never intended on making anyone feel bad.

Answer 1

almost daily, and often several a day, sometimes I give or lend them money to help them out, sometimes I give advice, but I always pray for them.
I once gave my last 20 dollars to a man that needed gas to go to a job interview, when he said he would pay me back I told him to give to someone else in need, the same day I received 200 dollars from an unexpected source.
if we can't reach out to others then our lives are too narrow.
if we don't give then we restrict God's chances to bless us.

Answer 2

Many, many times. I believe that sometimes it's good to listen to someone else's problems. It makes you appreciate your life better and it helps them by knowing that someone cares. We are all brothers and sisters and as such; it is our job to help one another when we can. Never be too busy to listen to someone. You might just be the key to keeping them from killing themselves or who knows what other horrible thing. People do horrible things when they think no one cares. I never want anyone to cross that fine line just because I was too busy to listen for a few minutes.

Answer 3

People often need a listening and non-judgemental ear. That is wonderful to provide for another.

The best solution to problems is that which the troubled person discovers for themselves. Sometimes listening can provide that opportunity.

Answer 4

Yes, of course. Any person with an ounce of compassion for another probably has done the same thing...and it is good for us as well as for them.

I am very fortunate as I often get to listen to the heartfelt problems of people every day as part of my job. It often leaves me with a sense of gratitude for my life and the opportunity to see the world through the eyes of another.

Answer 5

It makes me feel like I'm serving in the Lay Biblical Counseling ministry at the church I attend praying that God will give me insight and the person talking to me healing in Jesus' name. That's how it makes me feel.

The only burden I feel is the burden to pray for the person whom I'm ministering to. Sometimes it helps me with my life because I can see areas were I need to grow as I recognize that need in the other person.

Answer 6

Yes, unfortunately I have.
It is kind of funny though.
Sometimes they just want to vent and not be simply talking to themselves.
Sometimes they are askingf for money or help, ok.
Sometimes they really are trying to figure it out, and questioning and advising a little can sometimes help.

However, I am a normally gruff person with more than enough troubles of mine own so if you are looking for sympathy take a hike!

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Answer 7

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Answer 8

I have listened to many peoples burdens. It kind of freaks me out at first when they start confiding in me, but it is nice to know that not only can they trust me but also they find comfort in telling me.

Answer 9

Dang you are making me feel bad like I just dumped all my troubles on Markyyy's lap..He is a good listener though and adds a twist to what I was thinking to start with..he's pretty cool

Answer 10

yes you should but always refer her to God because he can help her resolve the problem. It is important because you can comfort her too.