never had a boyfriend?

Question

im avergae height and weight i have blonde hair blue eyes and big boobs and a huge dimple...ik its not my personality but why dont guys like me?
(im not at concieded of self-concious as i sound ive just always wondered)

Answer 1

I think that having self confidence can be one of the best ways to attract the type of boy your family should want. Also, there is nothing lost in waiting if you are truly worth waiting for. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 2

I have the same problem. I am almost 17 and I have never had a boyfriend. I have no idea what it is. I may sound conceited too but I think I'm really pretty. I have big boobs and a really good personality and I am very beautiful on the inside and outside as well. I guess some guys are just really stupid. The time will come though. Remember, great things come to those who wait. Thats what I keep telling myself and hopefully its true. Good luck!! ♥

Answer 3

Well, you do not sound vain or insecure to me, but maybe you come across that way to the guys if they pick up on how you feel. If a guy was wondering with a sigh, "Oh, why doesn't a girl like me," would you really find him attractive? Relax about the dating scene and try making becoming friends with them first.
From what you listed, it sounds like you believe guys go after looks. That is not true, plenty of them appreciate a girl who is intelligent and can hold a conversation too...a nice appearance helps, but like in your case, it does not always gurantee someone will like you. Do you try talking, sitting with them at lunch, stuff like that? After all, it takes work to make love happen. ;)

Answer 4

This is way too hard of a question for Yahoo Answers, little lady. We would basically have to read a novel about your life and then dissect each little detail, and even then it would only be our opinions (most of us screw ups anyways). Just be patient.

Try to get involved in fun things like sports, or groups or whatever with friends. All of these things will help you find someone to like even faster, and it'll be even better that you both share some interests...and not just that you look hot. Try to be calm and stay cool. The boys are the ones who have to freak out to try and win you over, not you. :)

Answer 5

You didn't say how old you are? I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18. I was self conscious all through high school guys use to make fun of me all the time.
I finally graduated and started making new friends at my job and my self confidence kicked in. I didn't worry all the time. You sound gorgeous so I don't understand. Are you insecure? Are you shy?

Answer 6

by the way that you describe yourself you are that barbie doll type and most guys are afraid of that persona . where exactly are you looking because there has to be a strong confident guy out there that is not scared to approach you. maybe its a good thing that the cowards have left you alone a real man is definitely going to find you so just be patient.and don't give excuses about the Way that you look if someone takes the way that you speak about yourself as conceded then they have the problem. keep your confidence and be patient

Answer 7

well first off, not every guy is so easily lured in by the things you described, although you do have a good start. Maybe it's the way you present yourself such as making other guys feel distant from you. Are you playing hard to get? Or are you leading people on too much?

I'm not positive, but good luck finding Mr. Right :)

Answer 8

Also, I know how you feel cause I experience the same thing. Not conceited, but I am attractive and I have a ton of friends (guys and girls). I typically let a guy know if I'm interested so he feels safe asking me out.
I didn't have my first boyfriend until 16.

Answer 9

Look i had my first bf earlier in my school year, itwas kinda hard but then he started rummor's bout me now every one calls me S.T.D's and it hurts but i moved on...........
look its not bout me its bout u and u sound like a verry pretty and attractive girl look u make the first move if u have to
if no one ask's u out then find the person u like write him a note but DONT put your name on it then it will make him wonder and if he pay's more attention to u then he's totally into u just remember fallow your heart!!!!

Answer 10

Im almost 16 and never had a bf not because guys didnt like me because I didnt find someone I liked until now there is someone out there for you and you just have to wait for him to come