i have a really nice, cute, smart, and funny boyfriend.his friend came over to my house the other day when my boyfriend was over.my boyfriend went to the bathroom and it was only me and his friend.we were just watching t.v. when i went to get more popcorn.as i was getting up, the friend got up and grabbed my hand gently and kissed me!i hit him on the head with a magazine.but i was to late.my boyfriend saw us kissing and he just left my room and out the apartment.he thinks that i kissed his friend back when i didnt.i want HIM back so badly.what should i do???????????
2007-06-08 15:05:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever given him any reason to mistrust you?
If not, then all you should need to do is tell him the truth.
If he trusts you, then that should be the end of it.
If he doesn't trust you, then it won't matter what you say and you are better off.
However, if you have given him reason to mistrust you in the past, you have a tougher problem.
Your past indiscretions have now left you open to character attacks.
2007-06-08 15:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! That stupid idiot.. He's not really a friend thats for sure. Try talking to your boyfriend and tell him what happened. If he doesn't listen to you then talk to his friend who kissed you and ask him what to do now since this is all his fault. Otherwise honestly if your boyfriend really cares about you he will listen and trust you, a relationship without trust is meaningless... then you should just move on and be careful around the next ones friends.
2007-06-08 15:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by ۩MoonLit Muslima۩ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your boyfriend should have gotten mad because the friend of yours took your hand and kissed you so you did nothing wrong. I would try to talk to your boyfriend and explain what happened and he should understand if he really cares for you.
2007-06-08 15:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Paisley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would begin with talking to him- Tell him the truth of what happened- maybe try putting all three of you in same room so he can confront his friend to see. If he loves you and trusts you then he will believe in you. All you can do is try to convince him.
2007-06-08 15:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should apologize and let him know that it was the friend that made the move and u were responding by hitting his asss in the head.. now if he can't accept that or believe u then he ain't worth it and his friendship w/his friend is gonna go downhill to.. cause that was straight grimey..... u know what they say 3 is a crowd and why he ain't say nothing to his boy?
2007-06-08 15:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about this one dear. sounds like your boyfriend wants out and what a way to do it! if he truly cared, there would have something said. would have called you or him a name, screamed or fight. he did nothing but leave! by the way, isn't three a crowd? you need to get your self-esteem together and let him go. you are worth it even if he doesn't think so!
2007-06-08 15:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by NOEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY IN THE HELL DID YOU JUST STAND THERE?! I WOULD HAVE RANTED AND RAVED AND MADE A BIG OL' FUSSS SO MY MAN WOULD KNOW THAT IT WAS AGAINST MY FREE WILL THAT HIS FRIEND KISSED ME! COME ON NOW, WHAT WERE YOU THINKING!
not to be rude or anything... my apologies but you needed to be verbally SLAPPED on the head!
2007-06-08 15:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to explain to your boyfriend what happened make him confront his friend get them both together if this doesnt work he wasnt worth having in the first place trurt is very important
2007-06-08 15:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by marti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to explain it to him. If he doesn't listen, that's his problem. But if he's really that nice, he should believe you and give you another chance. Good luck!
2007-06-08 15:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you've tried calling him? Emailing him to explain the situation?
2007-06-08 15:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋