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I've had an on again off again relationship with my bf for about 5 years, we have 3 year old daughter. We just got back together about a month ago. But its the same stupid stuff that keeps happening in our relationship. I love him, but its not the love I once had for him. I think its just the I love you because you're my daughter's father type thing. I know he loves me too, very much, but he's too immature for my taste and he picks on me, he does too many things to irrate me, etc. He's 25 and I'm 27. How can I break up with him, for good, without hurting his feelings and also so that remain on good terms for our daughter?

2007-06-08 15:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

its hard to leave or break it off with someone when you have children with them, usually its for the best. if you really cant stand the guy just be straight up honest with him. i love you but im not in love with you anymore... i dont see our relationship getting past this and i think it is for the better that we break it off for good. and then comfort him about being a good father and you will never keep him from her, etc. good luck

2007-06-08 15:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I would just tell him that things aren't working out w/youns together that it's not the same. But that you want to stay in contact for your daughters sake, you want him to be a part of her life, but things just aren't working and that you are sorry. If he's any kind of man at all- he will try and understand and accept that and still be in the childs life.

2007-06-08 22:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 1 0

Well I can say that you need to get his attention to what he is doing to you. But if you really want to break up with him then you have to let that happen. You need to drive him away from your mind. Start seeing other people that are guys just as friends. Get over him. And when you do tell him how you feel and how you think that you and him and not meant for each other.

2007-06-08 22:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by blackoutt 3 · 2 0

its not possible to "break up" with him. You had a kid together, remember? He will always be in your life in one way or the other.

2007-06-08 22:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Redtic 2 · 0 0

just be like its not working for me.

2007-06-08 22:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by s w 4 · 1 0

JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU DONT LIKE HIM AND THAT HE IS NOT YOUR KIND ANYMORE

2007-06-08 22:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by j355ica_13 1 · 0 1

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