Should be moving out?

Question

Iam 21 year old female , and Iam going to be a 22 in Nov..

I still live with my parents..and my dad recently bought a house and everyone is excited to go and live there...even iam..but thinking about it...just makes me feel ashamed and embaressed by still living with my parents.., My parents didnt or even ever mentioned me to move out..but i just dont feel good about it...

I want to know..if iam really that lame to still live with my parents? i do study in college and work part time..

Answer 1

There's nothing wrong with living with your parents especially at your age (in my opinion,that's really young) you are living your life and being responsible with college and part time job. You can think about moving out when you have a career and is able to support yourself.Your parents seems OK with this, but if it really bothers you, you should talk to them about it.

Answer 2

Well honestly it is kind of lame lol. I mean, why would you want to still be living with those old farts anyhow?

It's good that you work and don't just sit around all day, but sometime soon your parents WILL be wanting you to move out. You're an adult now and should be thinking about getting into a dorm or apartment, maybe even your own house.

Answer 3

if your in college then I see nothing wrong with it. The problems come when 22+ live with parents and pay nothing at all while not going to school. I lived with my grandparents and there was a unertanding that as long as I was in school I didn't have to pay but as soon as I got out of school I need to pay to stay there. Nothing in life is free and if I am not in school I should be paying. Get your education done with, find a good job then move out. Good luck

Answer 4

No baby...as long as your parents aren't kicking you out and you're at school plus working part time...they are always grateful for you to live with them cause somehow you are not screwing up your time and of course it's their joy to see you growing. Till they love to see you around in the house, I suggest you to stay with them so you can be at ease at your studies and your job. Plus it saves you money cause if you move out, you will be force to pay your own bill. You may contribute a little at times for some necessities at home if you feel uncomfortable of living on mom's and dad's roof.

Answer 5

If you are in college stay as long as you can. Best to wait until you have a real job in the career of your choice before you take on all those expenses. If you want to be financially successful you need to focus as much as possible on school and NOT run up more debt.

Answer 6

It all depends on whether your parents are fine with this arrangement while you are in college. If not, then you must look toward getting your own place. It's time frankly. Talk to them. If they are just being nice hoping you are moving out anytime soon, they may or may not be able to say that. You have to know by living with them if they would be happier if you finally got out on your own. But talk to them.

Answer 7

You should move out only if you are bucking or rebelling against any of their rules. If you are arguing, yelling, and disagreeing with them, not doing your share of the chores, saying or thinking things like "I am 21 and I can do as I please" these types of things show that you need to move on. Otherwise you could be a benefit and a comfort to your family. I hope my daughter stays with us for many years to come

Answer 8

if you are over 30 years old then you need to find your a place. If not enjoy the benefits of living at home with your parents.

Answer 9

your only twenty two. if you are still going to school then you have no reason to be ashamed. after you finish school then you should think more about moving out.