my love!!! do i tell him??

Question

this person i like is super hot my age a friend of the family. he is also funny and really cool. the problem is we are friends and i don't want to ruin it like if we broke up or if he flat out says no! we most likley not be friends any more and like 99% of my friends like him and he turned them all down and they are way better looking than me and i don't know what to do!!!!! should i go with my heart or with my gut please help. and by the way i think he is "the one" you know the guy you search your whole life to meet. i luve him!!!!!!!

Answer 1

how u now if a guy likes u!!!!
1. He stares at you a lot.
2. He hits you a lot. (just play hitting)
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation with you
4. He yelled, "Hi!" to your mom that day she picked you up from school.
5. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process
6. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.
7. You were invited by him to a group outing.
8. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
9. He imitates your laugh (OK, you do snort sometimes) which makes you laugh even harder.
10. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
11. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
12. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, arms, back, etc.)
13. He says hi to you every time he sees you in the halls or around town.
14. He tries his hardest to make you mad or annoyed. Just to be funny)


There r way to many signs to just have one clear one because people show how they feel in many diff ways...

~For a guy~!

***How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then BOOM, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it

* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)

*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.

*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.

*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.

*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

*He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

Answer 2

U have to tell him or it's gonna be torture cuz u'll always be wondering if he could of been ur boyfriend. When u ask him though, just make sure he knows u still want to be friends if he says no. If he stops bein ur friend just for u askin him "the question" then he's too shallow to be ur friend or boyfriend.

Answer 3

Actually, if you two are truly friends, you'll still remain friends even after you've asked him out and he's turned you down.

That is, only if you can handle just being friends and hanging around him after you've developed your feelings of "love" for him.

You might try asking him why he turned down the other girls - his response may surprise you!

Answer 4

Miss cutie, Well hon you are halfway there ! People can not be in love for long without liking the other. You don"t want to look back someday and think what if ? Go for it !

Answer 5

life and love is a gift dont wait too long or dont be so fast aim your goal rem love always wins

Answer 6

pucker up if hes the one y pass it up

Answer 7

follow ur heart it always works!

Answer 8

just ask him!
be confident and do it!