Would u give the person a second chance?

Question

Say u go out with a guy and then u break because he never talked to u. Then ur friend goes out with him they break up and u go out with him agian because he promises he would change, but then this friend starts acting like a ***** to u and so u break up with him to safe both ur friendship with ur ex and the other friend. Then u realize u still really like him and he says to u that u had two chances and summer is coming up so he doesn't want to date. Would u give the person a second chance?

Answer 1

I don't think that you should have broken up with him because of his friend. If you really don't think that you will ever like another guy, wait until summer is over, until next year, and see what happens. But if you happen to meet someone that you might like more than him, go with it.

Answer 2

No, I personally would not give you a THIRD chance (big letters so that you can't mistake that this is what you are asking for, and not a second chance).

And I don't know why people are misreading this. How can you drop him if it is he who doesn't want to be with you? How is he a loser when he isn't the one asking to be with her again?

I really don't know what is wrong with people. He goes out with her. They break up. Since they aren't together anymore, he goes out with someone else, who just so happens to be a friend of hers, Then they break up. Since he is free once more, she decides she will go out with him again, see if things will be different this time. However, before her relationship with him gets very far, the girl he had been seeing, her friend, gets angry and acts out. She doesn't want any hard feelings between her and her friend, so she breaks up with him instead. So she chose her friend over him, Later, she decides she still wants to be with him, and asks him for another chance, which he refuses to give her.

She is the one that's been jerking him around and playing him, and he wants nothing to do with it anymore. Not the other way around. She is the one who wants another chance, not him. He doesn't want anything more to do with her right now.

Read the question.

Answer 3

You are really confused. First you say you break because he never talked to you, (what of course, upset and displeased you). But then you say you still really like him. What's absolutely incoherent.
Its also totally incoherent, that you call as your friend, someone that dated your ex bf, left him, and now starts acting like a "beach" to save friendship (?)
And then you say he doesn't want to date. So, about what second chance are you speaking about?
Then, if you want to, you may try to have dates with him. Won't make you any harm. Who may hurt you is that girl you call your friend. Get away from her, she is not your friend, she is your enemy.

Answer 4

No way (I believe in second chances under the right circumstance though). But you said that he 'promises he would change'. That right there is a red flag. People shouldn't have to PROMISE to change and you shouldn't expect him to change. You're in high school right? You don't need that drama.
It's too bad your friend is acting like an a$$ to you since you dated him first. But whatever. Save your friendship with your girlfriend, it'll most likely be a longer one than any relationship you have with a guy in high school. Don't forget that there are plenty of guys out there that I'm sure would be willing to go out with you and that you would like, maybe even more than him! Pick one that wants a relationship even during the summer!!

Answer 5

No!

This is coming from agirl with a no-bull-**** attitude when it comes to love and life.

The boy obviously doesn't care much for you. If he never talked to you, that mena syou were the last thing on his mind.

He dated your friend. That shows he's inconciderate towards your own feelings. Again, showing that he DOES NOT CARE.

You dated again and in your good grace, you broke up with him to try to save your friendshipo. Keep it that way.

He wont change. He doesn't want ot date this summer, because he wasn't to flirt around. Where would that leave you?


Don't bother with it, it sounds like a waste of time. Find someone who's going ot treat you properly! You deserve it!

Answer 6

How do you feel about him now, anyway? And you've got to set it straight with your friend as well. But if the more important thing is keeping your friend, and if she can't take it if you date this guy, then drop the guy. If the guy will just keep on chasing you, then perhaps he should re-think his strategy and maybe talk to your friend whom he dated before and sort it out. It's pretty complicated when friends are involved, so you really have to decide what's more important. Of course, you can always try to keep both, but how you're going to do that will depend on the kind of relationship you have with your friend, or how much you know her. :) Also, figure out how important this guy is anyway. Ball's in your court. :)

Answer 7

There's a lot of breaking up going on. For one, why are you gonna break up with someone you like just because your friend (his ex) doesn't like the fact that you're going out with him? Why does her opinion matter to you? It's your life, you should be able to do what you want. They shouldn't be telling you who to date and who not to date.

Answer 8

Try to really decide is your friend a friend who is starts acting like a **** when you are happy - because a true friend should be happy for you if you are happy.

And if you really like the person, then you should give him a second chance but not let be manipulated by him no matter what be indpependant and strong.

Answer 9

Goodness sakes. It seems like high drama has hit your life with this guy. If for nothing else, the comment, "you had 2 chances and summer is coming" would be enough for me to say, drop the guy.

Answer 10

No. You broke up with him. Then your friend broke up with him. Then she freaked when you went out with him again. SOMETHING caused you to break up with this guy AND your friend to do the same AND caused your friend to react the way she did. Time to dump the loser and make good with your friend. Something isn't right about him, or you wouldn't be having so much trouble in the first place. You'll find a new, better boyfriend easier than you'll find a good friend.