Guy Probs help me?

Question

i think this guy likes me but my friend likes him!!
i always catch him taking a peek at me. if he asked me 2 go out with him i wouldnt cause my friend likes him. Is that the right thing 2 do??

Answer 1

No. If she's really your friend she'll understand

Answer 2

I've had this happen on more than one occasion. I have a friend who has almost exactly the same taste in girls I do, but he's not as outgoing with women as I am. I'm more likely to be so forward I scare a girl off, while he's so shy he ends up being perpetually locked in the friend zone (bit of advice: don't tell a guy "we can still be friends" because it just makes us angrier). So, when my friend pussyfoots around about asking a girl out, I come right out & tell him I'm interested. If he says he wants to ask her out, I tell him I'll wait, but he better make his move swiftly, because I'm only giving him so long & then I'm asking her out. I even tell him exactly how long he has. I've won some, he's won some, & they've all come & gone, but our friendship is as tight as ever because I respect him enough to let him know when I'm after the same girl he wants, & give him first shot if I know he liked her first. As long as this guy isn't dating your friend, he's fair game, so if you want to go out with him, tell her, & let her know if she's interested, you'll only give her so long to make her move (until the end of the night, the week, the month, etc.), & then you're going after him. That way, you're fair to her & yourself.

Answer 3

thats a tough 1 but i think that you need to weigh up how good a friend she is and if theres no chance of him getting with her then you not really getting in the way.. also if u been single a while and you think it will make you happy then im afraid if it was me i'd be selfish for my own hapiness and hopefully if shes a good friend she will understand that. hope that helps a bit

Answer 4

That depends on how you feel about your friend and how she feels about him, also how you feel about him. If you feel that you & your friend are the bestest friends, then I wouldn't do it. Guys are just not worth loosing a friendship over, even since you are young. Your friend could be there for years verses having a boyfriend for a month or so...it is your descision. I hope this had helped you! Good luck!

Answer 5

Well, it's ur choice. If your friend gets mad, try explaining that, if you and her are really true friends, she would want you to be happy.
BUT, also think about how you would feel if the guy went out with your friend but not you.

Answer 6

If you don't like him back, then it's fine. You don't have to go out with a guy because he asks you out.

I would say don't even worry about it, I don't think guys your age are really daring about asking girls out.

Answer 7

Guys come and go but friends are forever. That being said, tell your friend that you really like him and that he seems to like you. If she is a true friend she will tell you to go for it.

Answer 8

i think if he does askes you out you should ask your friend if its okay that yall go out and if she says yes well then go out and if shes no than just think about beacuse shes not really your friend if she dosnt let you go out with him but , still u shouldnt let a boy ruin a friendship

Answer 9

no if you like him and he asks you out go. If your friend still pursues her feelings then she's not a friend.think about it if he asked her out and not you; do you think she'd be thinking about you???

Answer 10

look, if this guy asks u out, u should say yes, because if he asks u out, your friend will know hes not interested anyway!!! so go for it!!! its not ur friends business anyway!!!
good luck
xoxoxox

Answer 11

you are right. If he askes don't go out with him. That is one of the unwritten girl codes that should not be broken,.