scared to have sex?

Question

im scared that he wont like how i look without my clothes or something.. what if he doesnt? im scared to have sex cause idk if hes gonna like it or not

i dont mean like my body, lol. i mean like my private parts..

Answer 1

Well sex is a powerful thing. It has the power to give life(baby). It has the power to take it away(AIDS). If you're not willing to sacrifice yourself alone for a teenage boy to one of these then don't do it.

There are no shortage of teenage moms around the world who regret what they did. I bet every single one of them thought, "my guy loves me and won't bail if I get pregnant."
Please don't be that foolish making the same mistake.

Answer 2

Most sex happens with the lights off, just make sure there isn't much light. To be honest, if you are going to give it up to a guy, that person probably won't care, he will just be happy he is going to get some. If you were dating this person for a while, then there is a reason he is sticking around, so he probably won't care what you look like.
As far as him not liking it, trust me, he will like it. Unless you just lay there, and make him wear a thick condom, and you better use one, and not say anytihng to him during the act, then he will get bored, but he will still get off. You might not, but he will.
If you are scared, then don't do it until you are ready. You best bet would be to if you think you are ready, then just have some heavy make out sessions, to get you in the mood. Then, have him play around down there. If it doesn't bother you, then go on from there, until you feel comfortable enough to have sex. Now, I am not saying all this has to happen in one night, it could take a few make out sessions, time is not important. If he is willing to wait, then he will make it comfortable for you. If its his first time, then its going to be scary for both of you.

Answer 3

Believe me, guys don't care. All the stuff women are insecure about guys don't even notice if they're about to get sex. So you can relax about that. Besides, you should be doing this with someone you trust who really cares about you. If you've got a good guy on your hands, he won't mind that your body isn't perfect. Odds are neither is his! But if you're scared or unsure you want to do it at all, for any reason, wait until you really feel ready. And of course use protection.

Answer 4

oh believe me men like sex and if u don't want ur body to be exposed u can always turn off the light. it just u and ur bf no one else. if u can't do it even in the dark then i would say that u r not ready or u don't have self confidence.

Answer 5

I really doubt that he will. It's not like he's going to go "She was so hot until she took off her clothes and I seen her granny panties." Or something like that. Guys don't turn down sex, especially if they're already in the act of it...

Answer 6

Have sex in the dark or under the covers. Or let him know your not comfortable, and keep your shirt or something on. If your not ready to have sex then you shouldn't.

Answer 7

If your afraid then don't have sex. It is a very simple thing. When your ready you will have NO fear. Not even the tiniest doubt.

Answer 8

Try to understand the difference between love and lust and you'll be motivated to do the best for both of you.

Answer 9

Sounds like you are not old enough or mature enough for this step.
Please don't start until you are ready. You could do more harm than good by starting when you are not ready.

Answer 10

well if he loves you..he should not care what you look like with out clothes on..so don't worry just if you feel uncomfortable don't do it until you are comfortable