Variations of attraction from spiritual to carnal and all mixes in between the two. Lust, wanting to please someone, wanting to be with someone etc. etc.
Why does it hurt? because love removes the protection and we are exposed and become utterly vulnerable - but consider the alternative: C S Lewis wrote
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.”
2007-06-08 07:55:20
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answered by pwwatson8888 5
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We love someone because of our hormones.. and it hurts because once you lose that person that you loved.. and bonded with.. then you feel like you I dont know how to explain it.. sorry I answered the first one I guess....<3
2007-06-08 07:40:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Thats the age old question people have been asking, like, forever. Ill keep my eye on this one, Maybe i can find out too. good luck!
2007-06-08 07:38:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Its our emotions that cause these things but truth is nobody really knows you jus suddenly feel these emotion come over you.
2007-06-08 07:40:50
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answered by puppylover101920 1
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i think love hurts because we get attached to them then they leave:(
2007-06-08 07:42:05
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answered by susanna b 1
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Cannot answer the question, but its just happened to me and im gutted. And im no spring chicken!!!!!!!
2007-06-08 07:46:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Same here
2007-06-08 07:39:45
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answered by Constance M 4
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