i am dating this guy who has cheated on me twice now with the same girl?

Question

we have been dating for over 2 months and within those two months he has cheated on me twice. He promised me he would stop and I want to beleive him. he tells me that he loves me more than anything in the world. I don't know what i should do!!! HELP!!

Answer 1

once a cheater always a cheater.

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Answer 2

You all have been together for too short of a time for you to even consider standing next to him after him cheating. You need to move on. There is no potential for a future with two with him already having cheated twice. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have cheated at all. Don't even believe him when he says that he does love you.

Answer 3

Two months with the same girl twice? Please, please, please dump him. This guy cannot seem to keep his hands off this girl and since he seems to want her so bad he can have her. Please let him go, because I promise you he will do it again by month 3 or 4. Its not worth it and the relationship is not at all that serious and its a good thing you haven't already put too much time into him. Do it while you because if you wait after a year or two and you're still taking him back its going to be a thousand times harder to leave. Its time to say bye bye.

Answer 4

It depends what you want out of life. If you are looking for a stable normal relationship this won't be it. He obviously has a problem being honest and faithful and doesn't follow thru on a very important promise. You know the answer and only you can fix it.

Answer 5

I don't mean to offend you, but do you have insecurity issues or self esteem problems? You need to let this cheater go. He must like this other person to sleep with her twice. Once is a mistake twice means he knows you'll take him back, if you stay together I know there will be a third. I speak from experience. Please take my advice. The sooner the better.

Answer 6

oooh dats really hard but he's done it not once but twice n dere is a big chance he culd do it again! Mayb tho dis guy does love u and has just made bad choices, try keeping d relationship up 4 a while and if he doesnt give u d attention u need u'll kno sumthing is up, and keep a luk out girl!

Answer 7

...call his bluff darling...cause he's a cheater by no other name. I'd saddle him out to the curb with Friday's trash sweetie.....cause he'll eventually hurt you again with this kind of nastiness anyways. Cheaters are people with virtually no conscience or consideration for other peoples feelings seriously. They're very extremely selfish one track minded me me me type individuals,....and they're certainly not to be trusted. I could tell ya that I love you too darling...but would you believe me really? Hmmmmm....!!!! Ease up on this eccentrically self centered individual reasonably. You'll sleep better during the nigh time if you'd only release him. Don't be a victim darling.....be your own best hero and relieve him of his duties.

Answer 8

People have different definitions for love, but cheating is never part of that definition. If you stay, you only stand to get hurt more than you already are right now. I'm sorry..but it doesn't look like love at all.

Answer 9

What you should do is get rid of him and his lies. There are good people out there who will not use you. It may take a while to find one but don't latch onto the first one that comes along just because you want to have a boyfriend.

Answer 10

Once a cheat allways a cheat, he knows he can get away wit it so he will keep doin it until u put ur foot down. I know from experience wit my ex wife, she was cheatin and kept tellin me she was gonna stop and never did.

Answer 11

And just what makes you think he won't cheat on you a third, fourth, fifth, etc. time? You've essentially given him permission by letting him get away with it thus far...