I was dating a guy for about 6 months, we really loved each other. It was a long distance relationship but we saw each other regularly and I trusted him, but one day he stopped calling so i asked him what was up and he said he had met another girl and he liked her so much that he was sorry but he couldn't be with me, so we broke up. About 2 weeks later he said he felt so bad and he loved me and wanted to date again, I rejected that though. Now I am dating someone new, he is great but i don't think i can love him because this other guy is all i think about, I send him texts and call but he never answers them. The other day he texted me and asked if i still loved him I said yes but he never wrote back...so my question is if i should stay with my boyfriend now or break up and try to get the other guy back? Or how to get over him! I didn't have any closer it just ended after i rejected him the second time, it hurts like heck!!!
2007-06-08 06:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by ilr_mingus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with both of them.
You don't really care about Guy #2 if you're still interested in Guy#1
But Guy#1 has already dumped you once for someone else and is now playing games, so stop letting him run your life..
2007-06-08 07:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the first guy go. It didn't work out. He fell for someone else, and thats his doing. Basically that means that he let you go.. so you need to do the same. Dating someone immediately after a break up is a typical rebound, thats why you can't love this other guy. And sometimes its not all about falling in love again. Sometimes its about spending time with yourself and learning to love yourself first, and just be single. Have you tried that one yet?
2007-06-08 14:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being unfair to your current boyfriend. You have to break it to him, the truth. See how it goes from there. He may want to be your friend still, or he may also ask for a chance. Then it'll be up to you, or up to how you get to resolve your other issue. ..About this one you had a relationship with before..well.. It's a bad cycle, you see. If you want closure, then you both have to sit down and talk. Set the grounds for what happened before, and get them resolved before anything else. Don't do the "get back together first then handle the issues later" stint. It's old, and rotten. I can't just tell you how to get over him; you really have to resolve past issues first. Ball's in your court. :)
2007-06-08 14:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, it is just my experience but long distance loves are not worth the pain of seperation.Plus it is the little day to day stuff that should be shared that is agony ! Commen ground is the key to a love that lasts !
2007-06-08 14:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry on with both the guys, then you will know who is better, don't compare them, but see how deep is their love for you.
2007-06-08 14:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a spine and stop talking to the ex..... he hurt you and doesn't deserve the light of day.
MOVE ON.
2007-06-08 14:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋