i know it's ok 2 ask people 2 bring a "dish 2 pass" @ a pinic, but would it be appropriate 4 a graduation party??
2007-06-08 06:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by BETHEA B 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Definitely use the word "potluck" in the invitation, and also mention what you will be providing, like cake and punch or something. And keep the party informal so they don't think you're a mooch. Like a backyard or park event.
2007-06-08 06:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are correct that if one is following the rules of etiquette strictly, one hosting a gift-giving party would not expect guests to bring food as well. That being said, many families do not follow formal rules of etiquette for family gatherings to celebrate things like graduations and birthdays. Pot-luck family events are quite common. In fact, many would think it odd NOT to bring something to a family gathering. The bottom line here is that the ONLY thing you have control over is how YOU behave - so remember that even if you think she is out of line, two wrongs don't make a right. My best advice is to bring a dish (if you can) and bring a gift as well. And NO, the dish doesn't need to serve 60 people. If everyone brought a dish that served 60 people you could feed a small city. This really isn't a big deal and you're letting yourself get way too worked up over it. Your husband is right.
2016-04-01 10:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's also called a potluck, and it's perfectly acceptable to throw a potluck party for your graduation. It should be optional, though, no one should feel guilty or not be allowedto eat for not bringing a dish.
On the bottom of the invite, you can write "Potluck - please bring a dish to share!"
2007-06-08 07:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be OK as long as it is family and close friends. If you are inviting friends of the graduate (who have also graduated) I wouldn't ask them to bring anything.
2007-06-08 06:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah b/c doing everything yourself can be expensive. Say its a potluck. Plus, make a list so not everyone brings the same thing make it a variety for all people including vegitarians.
2007-06-08 06:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is fine to ask your family and close friends. It is not OK to ask friends of the graduate with whom you do not have a relationship because you don't know their situation well enough to know if it would cause undue hardship.
2007-06-08 06:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by wendy08010 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, no big deal. Although I wouldn't. But if I were asked to bring one I would not be offended.
2007-06-08 06:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not....
2007-06-08 06:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not formal and you know them then sure.
If it's formal probably not.
2007-06-08 06:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by naturegirlkole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a math problem or something?
2007-06-08 06:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by manatee 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋