A little rough between the sheets please!!!?

Question

Sexually, I'm woman who knows what she wants in bed, how do I convince a sexually consevative man (and good guy) to step up his game and really take control every now and then.

Answer 1

tell him. hard for some guys who have been raised to respect women, treat them as fragile creatures, to believe they can just tap into their animal instincts and just devour you. he is just being considerate, thinking about what he thinks you want. at first you might want to gently nudge him in the right direction--a well-timed bite can create a rush etc. hopefully he'll respond in kind etc. surprise him--take him out of his game--he'll pick up on these things--just share--but don't talk sex to death.

Answer 2

This is a great question. I remember when I was in my younger 20's I thought every woman wanted the same type of intimacy. I was always very romantic in the bedroom and gentle as a lamb. Women were always impressed it seemed. I began to creep with this woman who was older that me and while we were into it she told me straight up " you gotta beat this up" well, I must admit that it threw me off at first. However, I have always been the type of guy who is purely satisfied by the satisfaction women receive. I became more aggressive until she told me otherwise.

She took me out of my comfort zone, and you can do the same for him. Her honesty has made me an animal in every bedroom I enter thus far. Men don't always know how you want to feel but a good man will have no problem in changing up his game some if neccessary. So you should let him know what you want and need. If you are worried about not offending him just let him know that you are acustom to certain aggression. Make him feel confident that he can satisfy you even more if he was more aggressive or whatever the case may be. I really hope this helps you sweetie.

Answer 3

If you tried talking it's time for you to make him feel in control...he just might take over. Try this, your sitting across the him or beside him while stareing you tell him to kiss you or else, if it's not how you like stop and tell him he better do it like he means it, now you have to sound like you mean as well. Now if that works for you while your still kissing instruct him to suck here, bite there(not to hard though unless you like it like that). It's something to show him what you like and build up his confedence, he may not know how you want to be touched...he may just take over if he sees how turned on you get, then afterwards tell how good it felt( if it felt good to you). he may need a jump start.

Answer 4

you just tell him, it would be better if you talked while out walking or driving, just not right before you want to get it on because then there's the pressure of remembering the changes that you want, it needs some time to sink in. but also compliment on what you do like so he wonk feel useless

Answer 5

Sorry to say but you can't. He is what he is and isn't going to change. If this is important to you then you need to find someone else. Not everyone is meant to be together, he doesn't seem compatible with you sexually. You can't change him, just as he can't change you. Would you be happy if he was asking how to get you to be less sexual? I highly doubt that.

Answer 6

start trying to talk about it and get into some constructive conversations, that and be more vocal and let him know when you really like something he does.

Communication is key, i like a woman that knows what she wants!

Answer 7

Behave like a s.l.u.t and if you are lucky he will then treat you like one!! Always a turn on for me!

Answer 8

doubtful you will change him
best effort would be to find the thing--
say, (*****)
that gets him to go outside his boundaries

Answer 9

tell him that you really enjoy him
but occasionally you would really enjoy that little extra
maybe even perhaps show him