survey for couples getting married...?

Question

1. what's the age of you and your fiancee?
2. how long have you been together?
3. what issues have you talked about that are important to you?
4. have you live together prior to getting married?
5. did you go to pre-marrieage counseling?
6. are you planning to keep in touch with your ex's
7. are you planning to have kids?
8. do you have a pre-nub?

Answer 1

1. I'm 26, my husband to be is 43
2. 3 years in July
3. the future, retirement, finances, committment, raising of his children, decision making, responsibilities around the house.
4. Yes, we've lived together for about 2 years.
5. Yes, and I strongly recommmend counseling. It is always helpful to iron out the primary goals and agreements of your relationship with the help of a professional. It helps with your communication skills and allows both parties to be on the same page going into the relationship.
6. One of my ex's is going to be in our wedding, with full knowledge and consent of my fiance. My ex is now my best friend, who lives out of state. We are no longer romantically involved in any way other than a true, loyal friendship.
7. My fiance has 2 daughters, ages 10 and 12. They are the only children I will have, and that is what I want.
8. Yes, we will have a pre-nup.

Answer 2

1.what's the age of you and your fiancee? I was 23 & he was 24 (we got married less than a year ago)
2. how long have you been together? About 4 1/2 years when we got married
3. what issues have you talked about that are important to you? the future in general
4. have you live together prior to getting married? yup, 3 years before
5. did you go to pre-marrieage counseling? nope
6. are you planning to keep in touch with your ex's? we both have an ex or 2 we are still friendly too, we're not going to cut them completely out of our lives just cause we get married
7. are you planning to have kids? some day, probalby in 4 years or so
8. do you have a pre-nub? nope

Answer 3

1. I am the bride, and I am currently 23, but will be 24 when we marry. He is 24 and will be 25.
2. We have currently been dating for 2 years, and it will be almost 4 by the time we marry. We have been friends for years though.
3. Trust, honesty, and our goals in life. We want it to work forever, because we both believe in "till death do we part". We also want to obtain certain goals seperately before marriage and then some together after marriage.
4. Yes, we have been living together for a year now, and are currrently moving into a larger home.
5. We have not gone to counseling, and we don't currently plan on it. Nothing a counselor can say can make things work, its all about the desire for it to work, and compromising. You can't change someone through a shrink.
6. We are both friends with some ex's. Its not an issue, we are all adults. The people we dated in the past made us the partner we are today.
7. Yes, someday.
8. No pre-nuptials.

Answer 4

1. I am 23 and he's 22 (we're getting married next july, so we'll be one year older)

2. We were friends for a year before we dated, and we dated for a year and a half, and we just got engaged a month ago, and we'll be married in a year, so I suppose by the time we're married, we'll have known each other for going on 4 years.

3. Faith, money, kids, occupational vision, importance of our families.

4. no. we will not live together before we are married.

5. We probably will have some form of premarital counselling

6. No. We do not speak with our exes.

7. Yes. We'd like at least 2, at most 3.

8. No. we will not be signing a prenup.

Answer 5

1. both 30

2. 17 years (since we were 13)

3. future children and how we'd handle raising them, finances, pets, careers, household stuff, our families and parents, sex, etc.

4. we have lived together for 8+ years (but kind of a rarity - I still earned that white dress!)

5. we're not going to have counseling, because we're already a great team and have not had problems so far and we've already been together longer than a lot of people stay married. However, we have looked at the free pre-marital questions online and have had fun answering them together.

6. neither of us have ex's - but we both have friends of the opposite gender that we will still be friends with.

7. we're planning on not having kids for the first 2 years, but after that no more than 2 kids.

8. we're not having a pre-nup

Answer 6

1. He is 28 and I am going on 28 in a couple of weeks
2. 3.5 years
3. Spirituality, philosophy, dreams, goals, money, we talk all the time about everything... He is more of a talker than me - which isn't normal for men.
4. Yes we have lived with each other the past 2.5 years
5. We have not yet, but we plan to in the coming weeks.
6. No
7. Yes
8. No

Wedding 07/07/07!

That was fun! What's the purpose?

Answer 7

1. I'm 21, he's 24. We'll be 23 and 26 after we are married next year
2. Been together 3 years this Oct. Known each other 4
3. kids, finances (both who will handle them and what our goals are), where do we want to live, what kind of house, is he going back to school, sex
4. yes
5. only the few visits with preacher required by church
6. No, I was in conact with them but he doesn't like it
7. No planned (I won't say never or God will send me trips)
8. No!

Answer 8

1. 24 & 2
2. 2 1/2 yrs.
3. having a strong, stable family.. That's the most important thing. As long as you are strong and well receptive, decisions can be made a lot more easily.
4. yes for 2 yrs
5. yes. we don't really need it but it is recommended in our state.
6.there isn't any sense.
7. i already have two an he plans on adopting them.
8. you shouldn't need one

Answer 9

Answers to your Survey
1. My fiance is 30 I am 25
2. We have been together 3 years this August, we are getting married in September
3. We have talked about everything from the past, to money, sex, the future, childeren. These are all important aspects to concider before you make that leap. We bought a book titled "Don't Dare Get Married, Untill You Read This", This book has great converstion starters.
4. We moved in together after we got engaged, this is making affording the wedding much easier for both of us.
5. We did go to a Catholic premarital counciling weekend, and it rasied a lot of good questions about our faith and life with one another, she is catholic and I am not, now we are wondering how we want to have our family spiritual center together.
6. She keeps in touch with some, I do not, but I trust her and she trusts me, so we have no issues with talking with others even those we have dated in the past. The past is the past, and the future is with my wife to be.
7. We are planning to have kids, just not sure when we want them.
8. We to not have a "pre-nup", we believe that entering into a marriage with plans in case of failure is setting yourself up to fail. Marriage is a for life commitment, and we are commiting to it for life with one another, not to say divorce is not possible, but that is a last resort for either of us.

Answer 10

1. I'm 22 and he's 24
2. 6 years on our wedding day
3. Career choices, financial issues, number of kids, where we'd like to live, retirement plans, and sexual expectations. It's important to talk about all these things before you even consider marraige.
4. No
5. No
6. No
7. Yes 3-4
8. No