My husband is a great provider but my boyfriend is a great lover. He has all the charm and I love him more then my husband. What should I do? Is it wrong for me to share men, my husband makes alot more money then my boyfriend? Young lady needs to know!
2007-06-08 04:53:03 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GO to the person you love most
2007-06-08 04:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have to ask if there is anything wrong with it tells me that you think there is. If all parties involved with that situation know their role and are cool with it, then o.k.. I would be willing to bet that the provider is in the dark on the details. Any self respecting man with some pride would send you packing if he found out you had a boyfriend. Your husband probably makes alot more money than your boyfriend because he is not a dirt bag. Do you think you are the only one your boyfriend is getting with? Think again.
2007-06-08 05:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no children and your husband is aware of this arrangement, then I don't think I am in a position to say it is wrong. Doesn't seem right to me, but I'm not you or your husband.
If you husband does NOT know about it or you have children, then you are so in the wrong that you should be ashamed of yourself. I don't even know where to begin there are so many things wrong with this picture. For one thing, you are completely betraying your husband and risking losing EVERYTHING: the money, your boyfriend, your husband, and any self respect you may have. You are also putting your husband at risk of contracting diseases from your promiscuity, which is wrong, wrong, wrong. If you have children, you are risking losing them, in addition to teaching them unhealthy relationship patterns that will likely destroy their lives. Even if your husband knows this is going on and is cool with it, if you have kids they will NOT be so lucky when they grow up. Very, very, very few men would put up with this, and if your children are raised to think this is alright, then they are set up for failure. Don't kid yourself that your kids don't know what is going on.
But if there are no kids and your husband and boyfriend are ok with it, then good for you. It's your life! Do what you want to if you're not hurting anyone.
2007-06-08 05:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this question, and if the shoe was on the other foot how the hell would you feel? You must really have no shame...... to be able to face your husband daily with no remourse for your actions....... what goes around comes around and even if you love your boyfriend more than your husband know that to your boyfriend you are just a slut and there is no way he would ever trust you especially knowing what you are capable of. That is just my honest opinion, I could be wrong.
2007-06-08 04:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. Does your husband know about this guy? If he does then he is stupid for allowing this to go on.The b/f will never marry you and if a prettier girl comes along your history whether you stay with your husband or not.Either your husband dont know whats going on, or he is insecure to the point that he will do whatever he has to keep you even share you which is sick.Theres pregnancy and disease issues.Why not divorce him then screw who you want.Geta job or dont your sorry b/f have one that will support you both/ Your using your husband for his money while cheating on him.The pain you cause will come back to you muliplied in time.
2007-06-08 04:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose. Your husband, or your boyfriend. You can't have both. It's just not right. Dump the boyfriend, and tell your husband what he should do to be the great lover. I feel sorry for your husband...
2007-06-08 05:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Confusion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you don't sound guilty at all. Shame on you. If you don't love your husband then don't stay with him because money is not happiness. Although, if you left your husband for your boyfriend you would probably end up leaving him for someone else. You need to get yourself together. Your poor husband.
2007-06-08 04:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by StkyBky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats extremely wrong...if you feel that you dont love your husband as much then you need to get out of the relationship. think of it if the tables were turned, your husband had a female who he was more in love with than you and she was always at the house....hmmmmm....how would that make you feel. basically you're living a lie but if thats the way you want to go by all means go right ahead.
2007-06-08 05:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by ms neisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logic question: Would you like your husband (or your boyfriend) to do that to you? Don't do to others what you wouldn't like to be done to you. Is it wrong? YES! Of course it is. And remember: if you're doing this to your husband, why your bf won't do this to you? I strongly recommend you to check your feelings and made a decision... it is not fair for any of you (three). Good luck and I hope you don't break too much hearts.
2007-06-08 05:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were looking for someone that agreed with your situtation you posted in the wrong place. It's wrong and i'm sure you know that already. it sounds as if you decided to marry for money not love. if you're happy with your decision then live with it and stop letting your bf come to the home you share with your husband. that's not smart at all.
2007-06-08 05:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by stacy_branch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wrong. If you don't want to be with your husband, get a divorce. Make your own money and provide for yourself and have a happy relationship. You wouldn't want it done 2 you.
2007-06-08 04:58:47 · answer #11 · answered by sw312 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋