2007-06-08 03:43:00 · 29 answers · asked by papakose777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If I received an etiquette book with an invitation I would not go.
That is very rude to do.
2007-06-08 06:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That's very rude. It is as if you are implying that all of your guests have poor etiquette. I think you need to take a look at an etiquette book yourself before you think you can teach others.
2007-06-08 14:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right?? I think you're actually the one in need of an etiquette book. That would be so rude!
2007-06-08 11:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. Why would you send an etiquette book to your invited guests other than to suggest they lack etiquette?
2007-06-08 10:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea N 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Yes-think Star Jones lecturing her guests on The View
2007-06-08 11:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by vegasgal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would most definitely think so! By sending one with an invitation you are essentially insulting the recipient and informing them that you believe they have no manners. If you were considering this, I'd strongly suggest you'd reconsider.
2007-06-08 10:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Incredibly rude, if you think these ppl have that little class I would not send them an invitation. These are your family and friends! Maybe you should just have a private ceremony with just you and your fiance.
2007-06-08 10:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by tired 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It would be very insulting to your guests...and would be bad etiquette to presume to educate your guests on how they should act at your wedding.
Perhaps it is time for you to review the etiquette book yourself?
2007-06-08 10:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 5 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Now wait a second. Is your question--a bride asking about sending a book to each person you invite (wow that would add to postage) or is it more
I have an invitation company and as a gift to the brides who order from us, we would like to enclose an etiquette book.
B/c if that is the case--I think it is perfectly ok to enclose as a free gift an etiquette book. There are so many questions now brides have on proper etiquette--like putting "please send money" on the invites or questions with blended families on how to have parents, stepparents and parents in relationships walk in to the wedding.
I think most brides would enjoy that.
2007-06-08 10:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
What a great question, his had me laughing hysterically!
Although I absolutely LOVE the idea of doing this, no I dont think it would be proper. I would also LOVE to see the looks on people's faces as they open the invite and see the book!
2007-06-08 11:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋