im 20 and have started fallling in love with a guy from myspace. i dont really do internet romances or meeting people from the internet but he just came from the blue and we have so much in common. practically soulmates. he lives in Saint louis, missouri and i live in london. we;ve only been talking on messenger for about a week. what do you guys think? im planning on meeting him in the summer but theres no rush. im still a bit dubious about it. can people tell me their experiences of internet romances?
2007-06-08 03:32:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is dangerous if you've never met the person. But it can also be awesome. My sister met a really great guy online and now they're engaged.
Just be CAREFUL
2007-06-08 03:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only talked for a week. I'd give a month probably more.
I've met a girl on the internet before at a mall since it was a public place to set up a meeting. You should talk through cell phone as well. Probably webcam too. All of these are just for verification.
I live in St. Louis and it is also known as the most dangerous city in America. Not that that should change your mind or anything.
This world has gotten really bad if we always assume the worst in people we don't know but not the best.
In another case I met coincidentedly a girl I messaged online and said hey I know you from myspace and she probably got freaked out and considered it very stalkerish. I even had common friends with her. It just depends on people. I don't see much wrong with it.
2007-06-08 05:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by nightmaretrojan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do end up meeting with him be very carefull && make sure it's in an open place where lots of people are...
I think it can happen but not the full fledged "love" maybe a portion of love but not the whole sha bang...I'm sure you have feelings for him && what not it can happen my best friend has done this alot I'm not saying it's wrong by any means all I'm saying if you think you absolutelly need to meet him just be very carefull there are some weird characters out in that mean cruel world of ours. && some lie about certain things anyone can be behind that computer you just never know but I hope everything works out for your best interest good luck!
2007-06-08 03:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by manda102285 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and becareful first of all because it is an "internet romance", I have been involved with guys from the internet I dont see anything wrong with it but just that you should be careful when meeting him....its okay to like someone but when you meet him bring a knife, some mase, and or a gun...protection and pray,read the bible..you need all the protection you can get
2007-06-08 03:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i meet ppl of the ent in the area partly cos i alreayd no him! i got in touch with an old school friend through my space and now we live together and eveything is going well! if u are dubious chances are gut instinct he isnt right for u! if u r meeting him dont meet him alone and i wouldnt reconmmend going to missouri either tell him to ome here lol! if he feels the same way he will do it!
2007-06-08 03:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kylie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can easily connect with someone on the internet but I don't know how well it would work out. Personally physical attraction is #1 so how can that happen until you actually meet the person.
2007-06-08 03:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts and be very careful, the internet is full of actors and psychos. Don't let him pressure you. Having a lot in common doesn't make anyone your soulmate, be realistic and don't set yourself up for disappointment.
2007-06-08 03:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Elle777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a real love until you meet him.Anyway,I believe
you feel you like him.It happened to me few times too.It's easy to start to like someone from the internet because you never see him angry or nervous..you just see him as a perfect boy coz he behaves like this on the internet.You can pretend anything on the internet.Meet him and see what he is like.I met few boys trought the internet and we became real friends:-)Even my penfriend from Filand went to CZ(my homecountry)to see me.Good luck!
2007-06-08 03:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by **Diana** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that internet romance is jst as bad as these stupid woman going abroad and meeting someone and marrying them.its never gonna work out.
What happened to meeting people the good old fashion way?
2007-06-12 01:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥samiclaire_82♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its can be dangerous because you never known if the person is lying or not. i ve also being told by some individuals that depending on the websit or the person that you talking to not to share as much detail information about yourself until you actually me that person face to face.
2007-06-08 03:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋