i am 24 woman going to marry after 3 days due to a mistake in past i am not virgin if my bridegroom discover that wedding night he will send me family hoom and 99% i will be killed what i can do i couldnt go to doctor advice how to decieve my husband?
2007-06-08 03:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
before going bed put some kind of medicine that give red color in your vagyna and some of it in wc then when do sex cry and he will see red color then go to wc and color your underwearand every thing will go have ahappy honeymoon
2007-06-08 06:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by esmat b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you're from an Asian country. I think I know which one. You are in a bit of a problem.
I think people will tell you not to marry a person like this- but I guess you can't back out now due to your society and religious duties.
You must remember what it was like when you lost your virginity- act like that is the best advice I can give you.
Maybe cry like it hurts and cut yourself (down there) to produce some blood before it happens.
He is going to look for that- which is damn ridiculous because not all women bleed (I didn't)...but whatever.
I am really sorry that you are stuck in a situation like this.
The good thing is that society is also changing slowly over there....maybe your daughter or granddaughter will not have to go through these awful things. Love marriages are getting more acceptance.
Pray and have faith that there is God watching over you and seeing your struggle...and that someday you will be free.
I hope that this will be the end of problems for you in your life.
Be brave and be strong.
And don't ever confess to him or act strange- especially if your life is in danger.
Sometimes as women- we have to do what we have to do and then move on.
In the West, I think we take for granted what freedoms we have.
I know because I have been to the East and seen what goes on with my own eyes.
Don't refer to this as 'deceiving your husband' but think about it as 'protecting yourself and your family name'.
This sucks. Sorry you are in this situation.
Good luck.
2007-06-08 03:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Mom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think Marisa has given you the best advice, but you should also follow Pink Denial's advice and try to get him drunk so he doesnt have any suspicions. I also agree that you should not think of this as deceiving your husband, but as protecting your life. A lot of women do not bleed anymore, but since he will be looking for this either do as marisa suggests and cut yourself prior to having sex or have a small vial of blood that he cannot find and go to the bathroom before sex and put some of the blood inside of you so it will appear as if you have bled. Good luck and congrats on your marriage.
2007-06-08 08:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take all of Marissa's advice AND make sure your bridegroom is extremely drunk. He will be less likely to notice imprefections in your acting if he's drunk. Afterwards, when he isn't looking, cut yourself in an unnoticeable location and bleed a little on the sheets. Most women don't bleed nowadays, but I suspect that people in your culture will be looking for it.
2007-06-08 04:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter so much to him? He should be marrying you because he loves you and doesnt care about these things. If he is that bothered by you not being a virgin (my question is he a virgin, because if not then he shouldnt really give a fig) then you probably are not in a good relationship and should get out.
2007-06-08 05:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Little Flower 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a good way to start a marriage...NOT!!! There is no way and I suggest you come clean to him before the wedding.
2007-06-08 03:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's no way of deceiving if your telling the truth now then don't stop continue and tell him
2007-06-08 03:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by yukd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if yo can afford it, theres is medical procedure you can do....but i guess not in 3 days though...sorry!
2007-06-08 03:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by kobi k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋