2007-06-08 02:57:39 · 62 answers · asked by Zara B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure you should, Zara! Then, sit back and wait until he dumps you (men never, ever stick around with women they do not respect except for the easy sex, and if he's abroad he's getting that somewhere else anyway) whereupon your photos of you with your ankles behind your neck show up on a few websites who pay for that sort of thing.
2007-06-08 03:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say if you want to, but just think it out. How exactly does he want you to send him the pictures, through email, the postal service, or like cell phone picture messaging? There are a bunch of different ways to do it (not that I have or anything…lol) but your options are plentiful. If this is something you feel comfortable doing, then why not I say. I am sure it will be a fantastic thing for your guy and as well can be something intimate that you two share that can also no doubt-ably make you feel sexy and desired even though he is so far away. At the same time, you have to be realistic about this. The reason I asked about the mode of sharing these pictures is that ultimately there is always a potential risk of them being exposed to others.
If you were to say send them, through regular mail, are you comfortable with the risk that they could wind up opened or exposed to someone or some nosey mail clerk along the way? Or, perhaps even through email – many people are completely oblivious to the fact that when your emails are so called “deleted” they are in fact still retrievable. Even just the idea of getting such intimate pictures of you on the Internet at all should be thought out. For whatever reason, if they do become exposed to unwanted eyes – there is usually very little you can do about it. The cell phone pic sharing tends to be a bit safer (at least in the paranoia sense) because it is sent directly to the desired persons phone, so the chances for a nosey body peeking at them is highly slim unless your guy is pretty forget-me-not and looses his cell phone a lot of times.
Now, I say this, not to make you paranoid or to say you should go one way or the other, instead I am just laying out your advantages and risks. I personally, would explode with joy if one day I just happened to be walking along the sidewalk and my cell phone buzzed with a new picture message and it was a hot pic of my girlfriend! OMG, do you know how bad I would freak out! Ha Ha! However, I just say consider these simple three things:
1st ~ Is this something *you* want to do?
2nd ~ Are you aware/comfortable with the risk (as small as it may be) of sending such stuff out?
And 3rd ~ Could you send me some copies! Ha Ha! ^_^ I kid… I kid…
So, chew on those things, and happy picture taking if you do decide to do it. Cheers!
2007-06-08 02:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Answer-Me-This 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You must realize in doing so that you risk others seeing the picture. No matter what is told to you by your BF it is more than likely to happen. So the question becomes do you feel comfortable with you picture being potentially seen by many people. In the event that you split up could be posted on the Internet and seen by thousands. My advise, don't do it.
2007-06-08 03:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by ulragincajunfan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Think about this -- where are all the places those pictures can end up? What happens if you break up? What happens if you break up and he wants revenge on you for something? He will still have the pictures and is free to use them however he wants. He could blackmail you with them. He could sell them. He could use them or sell them or post them on the Internet years from now, when you are married with a family. Sure, you could ask for them back, but how will you know he hasn't made copies? Or he could claim that he lost them.
Believe me, this is a lot thornier road than most people think. Definitely not worth the risks.
2007-06-08 03:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can send very personal pictures and keep them tasteful. Ask around at different professional photostudios for what they provide and offer in this type of service.
I do it for my fella all the time when he goes away on tour to iraq and stuff.
2007-06-08 07:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do such things in case of a bad breakup or something...
He might then post those pictures on websites for revenge etc...I'm not assuming that your bf is a jerk but I'm just stating some of the possible events which may happen. People can become very nasty when they're angry.
Be very careful
2007-06-08 03:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Grace 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ask youself, do I want to do this? Think of you morals and what you value. If you value purity in a relationship don't do it. My ex bf asked me to do the same thing but I didn't because I felt it would be a sin, kinda like sex before marriage but without actually having sex.
2007-06-08 03:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure...if you honestly don't care who sees those pictures and where...a couple of years from now when you're no longer a couple....those pics end up.
Wouldn't want mom or dad surfing the internet, only to find a crotch shot of you on somebody's website.
2007-06-08 03:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by biiiiaaach 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That depends entirely on how much you trust him and how comfortable you are doing it. If you think he wont be sharing them with everyone he knows and you dont mind being naked on film, then go for it. This is one of those things that is completely your choice. If you dont want to then tell him no.
2007-06-08 03:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend sent dirty pictures to her bf
She saw those same pictures on the net and she was freaking out because she said she didn't put it there.
2007-06-08 03:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋