I'm a young woman and those times i had sex i didn't really liked it. I didn't enjoy it and to be honest i've always faked the whole thing. I'm 28. I think most women of my age don't have this problem.
2007-06-08 02:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not using sextoys.
2007-06-08 03:07:42 · update #1
i don't think anything is wrong with you... to be honest, there have been times i've not had sex with my fiancee for maybe a month, and i haven't missed it. ...not because he doesn't know what he's doing, and not because there is anything wrong with me phyiscally, but because my mind was elsewhere.
i think when you are stressed out or otherwise not emotionally invested in someone, it can be hard to express that physically. you may not want to at all...
i bet when you meet someone who really connects with you, you'll feel a bit more open to expressing yourself physically... and in the meantime, just try to take a few minutes to yourself every day and relax! stressing about this probably isn't helping things at all... :)
2007-06-08 03:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by tracii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a great aphrodisiac, but if you've only had meaningless encounters, then that my explain why you didn't enjoy it.
Caring about the person your with can make things that much better.
If you're lonely, seek someone you might like beyond the bedroom.
Additionally some women have a greater sex drive in their 30's.
If you can't wait till you turn 30, I'll give you a whirl.
2007-06-08 11:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by a_nemus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats why you dont miss it. Its unfortunate that you havent had a partner thus far that can bring you to orgasm. Maybe try masturbation (completely normal) to find your g spot...you can then transfer this knowledge to your love making. Once you are able to achieve this, you will thoroughly enjoy it - I promise. But youre not alone...lots of women have yet to experience this wonderful feeling and fake their way thru it. Its all a matter of knowing your own body.
2007-06-16 09:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong. Maybe you're just fed up with empty relationships, and as you already know, sex isn't all that people make it out to be. It can be exciting, but I think TV and movies hype it too much!! I was 26 when I choose to have sex, and I could have waited, b/c I'm not with him anymore, I'm raising our daughter alone, and I feel like if I ever get married my husband will always see me as used goods. You're fine!!!
2007-06-08 10:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants to say they have the perfect sex life. I don't think that your problem is that rare. You have figure out what feels good for you. Open your mind a bit. I think it's normal to go through periods when your not in the mood especially when you don't have strong feelings for someone special.
2007-06-16 09:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing is wrong with you. The problem is the guy you had sex. Does you know that there is penetration in sex. Did he suck your clit. Did you go under him. Does he knows about sex. Have you ever seen a porn video. Don't close the door yet for guy's give another one a chance before you go to another woman.
2007-06-15 22:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, i reckon the last time you had sex your partner.. you were having "sex" not making love... so my advice is, if you want to sleep with someone again.. make sure you feel that he respects you and loves you and would do anything to make you feel the same way.
2007-06-08 10:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK i do not think it is you..may be it is .the man you are seeing .may be you need more thin thy are Gaven you..so do not look for the some men you have been seeing in the pass .. may be you where think will he is good looking but your hart knows that you need more out of a man.. so good luck too you...o ya i am 41 yr old man...
2007-06-16 09:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i m sorry for u but the minute u meet that guy that could make u get the big O
trust me, u will be addicted to it
and that the best cuz i bet u have alot of store sexual energy in you
2007-06-08 10:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by simple J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
christ i thought i wrote that a minute im 28 female cant remember when i last had sex. i dont enjoy it either and coulldnt care less although my body still craves it and that is just enoying.
2007-06-15 18:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by dittohicks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋