So I asked out this girl a while ago, like 4 weeks or so. She said yes, but a few days later told me that she didn't have time to spend with me, and wouldn't for X number of days. I asked her if she would be interested in going out with me then, and she said yes again. She went on vacation, and i couldnt reach her cause she lost her cellphone....so when she got back, the time we were supposed to start "dating", i finally got a hold of her. I asked her if she wanted to go do somthing that week and she said she didnt know....then i asked if she even likes me and she said "i dont know".... Now i dont know what to do because im afraid she may like someone else, but i really like her, and waited so long for her and we havnt even gone on one date yet. What can i do to possibly save us?
2007-06-08 02:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl doesn't really like you, but probably doesn't want to tell you the truth to hurt your feelings. Otherwise you would not have to keep reminding her to date you. She would be keen to go out at some point. Let her be and find someone else. Maybe when you play hard to get she might even come running.
You must not think so low of yourself to fear her liking someone else otherwise you come across as being desperate, and that is not attractive to anyone. Begin to love yourself by reminding yourself how valued and worthy you are as a person and be prepared to get a 'no' when you ask girls out. Eventually, you WILL get a yes from the right one for you, and she will also think you are fantastic. However, if you think badly of yourself and worry about girls not liking you, then you won't find any girlfriend because you won't look attractive as they cannot love what you reject! Don't forget that. You have to love you first before someone else can.
2007-06-08 02:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ms CYPRAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bang Bang "My head hurts!" "Why do I continue to try to date that girl?" ----------"Shes not that into you" "Don't be a doormat"-------"Never go further when your head bang! Bangs!-------- Love is smooth, feels good, and is not bumpy, the young have to learn this, some girlfriends are not worth the headache, but until you know how good the right girl is for you, you'll keep thinking a kick in the head feels good.
2007-06-08 09:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can try to call again but don't be to pushy because then she will think that you r a stalaker or smthng. If u no wer she lvs thn snd her a letter witha poem or somthing
good luck
2007-06-08 09:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by sebastion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She appears very occupied and if she really did like you then she wouldn't hesitate so much on seeing you.
I would attempt one last time and if she still resists then that's should be enough to tell you that she does not like you.
Sorry, life sucks sometimes.
2007-06-08 09:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have no clue, but If she keeps this up... don't ask her any more. Seems to me she don't know If she likes you.
GOOD LUCK
2007-06-08 09:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by sarah k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋