How do you get a man to sleep with you when he's not attracted to you?

Question

Under what conditions would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to if you were a decent civilized guy: etc... you have to be so depressed you can't get out of bed in the morning, you have to be drunk 3 times, you have be suicidal, you have be desparately lonely after not talking to anybody for three years...

If I become pregnant by this man, he will have to marry me, and that is my goal to become pregnant.

Answer 1

You're an idiot.

And he doesn't "have" to marry you.

Answer 2

You can't get a man to sleep with you when he's not attracted to you. If a man did that to a woman, it would be rape, and it's no different if a woman does it to a man.
Just because you get pregnant doesn't mean he's going to marry you. Also, if you are suicidal and depressed, you are in no shape to bring a baby into the world and adequately provide for the baby's needs. You will have to wake up in the middle of the night to feed the baby, you will have to change the baby's diapers several times a day, you will have to constantly have to buy new clothes for the baby as she gets bigger and outgrows her old clothes, and as the baby gets bigger and learns how to walk, you will have to keep an eye on her and make sure that that she doesn't stick her finger in an electric socket or do anything else that could hurt her, you will have to put up with constant screaming and crying whenever she doesn't get her way, you will have to toilet train her, you will have to teach her manners, etc. etc. I once suffered from depression, too, and I also worked at a day care center, so I can tell you that a baby is the last thing you want right now.
Instead, I recommend that you make an appointment with a psychiatrist who can treat your depression with counseling and medication. As I said before, I once had clinical depression and I hated my life and myself and was constantly beating myself up- until I finally saw the light and got professional help. I went to therapy and took Prozac, and it really helped. Soon, all the negative thoughts and self-hating were gone. It was like I was a new person. Soon, I had enough confidence to go out and meet new people. I even had the confidence to ask a man out on a date. He is now my husband and my true love!

Answer 3

OMG I really feel bad for you! You are worth so much more than this. You should never belittle yourself to thinking that no one will want to be with you except to use you. Besides you whole mindset is off sweetie, even if you do become pregnant, why would you want to trap a man who doesn't even like? That is if you can trap him, because if he doesn't mind sleeping with someone he has no feelings with, don't you think that he won't have any objection to leaving you barefoot and pregnant by yourself? You don't need sexual healing, you need spiritual healing! You are hurt and you need to find a friend to help you in this time of need, try calling on Jesus before you call on some random guy who could ruin your life even more!! I'll pray for you cause it sounds like you need support more than anything!

Answer 4

Depends on many variables to include a man's age and other opportunities he may feel he has. Companionship is valuable; and sometimes people minimize the importance of other negative aspect within the relationship for this benefit. This situation can typically continue for several months; or as long as the women does not force an 'exclusive' commitment.

Answer 5

this is bad...i honestly this this is bad. You don't need to get pregnant with some mans kid that isn't Mr.Right for you, and he doesnt love you.

Find someone else and move on with your life! He doesn't want you, which means he wont sleep with you. Forget this guy!
I have no idea why you asked this, but this was the dumbest question i have seen with the most stupest details EVER!!!

Move on and get a life!

Answer 6

The last thing in this world that you need right now is to get pregnant!

It is wrong for you to want to trap a man like that! Why would you even want to have a child with a man who doesn't want you? Even worse, how dare you think of bringing a child into the world in such a dishonest, selfish way?

Grow up and keep your clothes on.

Answer 7

well let us take this in two parts. Do I have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them? No. What does she have to do to get me into bed? Not much, ask. But the rest of it is sort of creepy. You are trying to trap some guy into marrying you by getting pregnant. That doesnt work much these days, guys arent willing to run to the altar just because there is a pregnant girl involved. Not as much as the past you might want to rethink your plan

Answer 8

You're Scum. You're telling everyone you are a whore that wants to take advantage of a decent civilized guy, probably for money. You want to get pregnant so you have a reason, more of an excuse, to make him stay with you.

Answer 9

That will get you no where because a baby doesn't make a man stay...I know plenty of SINGLE moms who thought the same. With that mentality your going to be a very unhappy person.

Answer 10

You are a silly woman...Wake up and smell the coffee...If you sleep with the guy and become pregnant, he WILL NOT marry you! If anything, he'll disappear and leave you alone to raise a child by yourself. Don't do it! Please seek some therapy to raise your self-esteem.

Answer 11

There is something SERIOUSLY wrong with you. I suggest professional help - pronto. I wouldn't want to see a dog in your care let alone an innocent child.